According to a study, about 95% of men around the world CANNOT get laid.
I am not surprised. Most men are NOT sexy, are unattractive, have absolutely no charisma or discipline, and have no sense of style or fashion.
In short, most guys plainly SUCK when it comes to getting laid with women. And, my god, they chase women, like a cat chasing a mouse. Never gonna get ’em, baby.
You see, most guys are raised to be nice with women. And others, falsely believe that taking out a girl on dates and paying for it is the KEY to getting her back to bed.
However, most men do NOT simply get laid purely BECAUSE of these specific reasons. In fact, most guys DON’T get laid because they have crammed very stupid things into their head.
In this article, you’ll discover the common problems that most men are guilty of making. And, by making these mistakes, these guys LOST girls that they could otherwise get.
Here it is: The 6 reasons why most guys DON’T get laid in Paris.
#1 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You Don’t Approach A LOT of Women
To become a guy who is very good with women, really fast, you MUST talk to A LOT of girls.
No quick fix to this.
Talking to A LOT of girls, over and over, will guarantee that you’ll actually get laid, really fast.
This tactic applies to all types of game — online dating, day game, social circle game, night game, or whatever.
You must APPROACH and talk to A LOT of girls if you really want to improve your chances of getting laid on any given day or night.
That means: If you want to get laid through online media, in the fastest way possible, you must have a goal of messaging at least 100 different girls, EVERY DAY.
If you want to do “Day Game” and get laid, then you must make it your MISSION to approach and talk to at least 75 girls per day.
Here’s how doing this will help you in 2 different ways: First of all, it’ll help you become better with women, really fast… because you’ll be approaching and interacting with TONS of women, in the shortest possible time, and while doing so, you’ll be learning a LOT from your mistakes, too.
Secondly, you’ll also discover how far you can push the envelope with “new” girls. You’ll also see how fast you can move with new girls.
And, by doing all these, you dramatically INCREASE your chances of getting laid.
ALWAYS remember this: Dating is a number’s GAME. That means the MORE women you talk to and interact with, the MORE you’re going to get laid. It’s that plain and simple.
#2 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You Hesitate…a LOT
If you procrastinate and take a loooong time to TAKE ACTION — approach the girl, talk, and ask for the number — then you’re definitely not getting laid in Paris.
A girl’s attraction is NEVER static. It will gradually decrease if you do NOT recognize her “attraction signals” and fail to TAKE ACTION.
So, if you’re been talking to a girl for, let’s say, more than 15 minutes, it is either… a) time to ask for her phone number… or b) take her somewhere on an “instant date” (and even bring her back to your place).
Or, if you’ve been texting a girl for a long time, then…
… it’s time for you to ask her out on a date.
Likewise, if you manage to take a girl back to your apartment and have been talking to her for more than 15 minutes, then…
… it’s time to shut your mouth, kiss her, and escalate to sex.
When it comes to seduction, ‘WRONG’ ACTION is always better than NO ACTION.
Girls will easily forgive a man who’s trying to move waay too fast to have sex with them on a first date, but…
… they will NEVER go out again with a man if he STILL has not made a move after 3 dates.
Girl often views the first man as someone who is CONFIDENT and REAL who is NOT afraid to go after what he wants.
Girls views the second man as “asexual,” an AFC, and quickly throw him into the dreaded “friend zone.”
ALWAYS TAKE ACTION and move fast, for the love of god, and NEVER wait until date number 12 to make the move.
#3 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You FOCUS On Reactions (Rather Than Results)
Most guys go to the bars and clubs with the intention of making a “great first impression.” They make the girls laugh, giggle, and everything else, except give her a clear sign that you want sex.
Some guys even go out to pickup women without any goal at all.
Let’s look at these 2 examples:
E.g. #1: A guy approaches a girl. He makes her laugh with his humor, and mistake flirtation for attraction.
E.g. #2: A guy will initiate a conversation with a girl, and just because she does not eject from the interaction, he falsely ASSUMES that she likes him, wants to go out with him, and even sleep with him.
In the first example, the girl laughs because the guy is entertaining and funny. But, in her mind, she thinks this man can only keep her entertained and give her some attention… until she meets the man (OF COURSE, not him) who takes her home and entertains her in a much more sizzling ways.
In the second example, the girl is being nice and polite just because the guy had the balls to approach her.
Why do girls do this? Simply because this is the most appropriate thing for her to do.
Here’s how you can STOP entertaining her, and START getting results: You put the pressure on her and FORCE her to make a decision.
So, for example, let’s say, if you have been talking with a girl for 15 minutes, and you sense that she likes you but you’re not really sure, then…
… you ask her to go for an “instant date,” or sit down with you, or just go home with you.
Or, if you’re out on a date with her, and you think it is going well, and she likes you (laughing at our jokes)… then you invite her back to your place.
In both examples, you FORCE her to make a decision: Does she want to progress to the next level smoothly, OR… does she not?
By doing this, you’ll get instant RESULTS you’re looking for — i.e. sex on the same night. Or, if she won’t, then you can MOVE ON and approach and interact with OTHER girls.
#4 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You are too much outcome dependent
“Hold on for a second. Aren’t you saying that not caring about sex can prevent me from getting laid? So, why shouldn’t I focus on the outcome?”
Yes, yes, I understand. I know it sounds contradictory, and might not make any sense…but bear with me for a second. Everything will make sense, very soon. You see, while we guys care only about sex, women are different creatures.
We men are attracted to visual cues — her appearance, boobs, that big ass — because it turns us ON. OF COURSE, we want other things in a woman, too — feminine energy, warm, kind, and with a kick-ass personality, BUT…
… the fact remains the same: We men still care a LOT about girl’s looks.
On the other hand, women care more about a man’s IMAGE.
A BIG difference!
They care more about WHO is he, than WHAT he looks like. They care about whether he is safe to be around or not, or the “connection” they have with a man.
They want to know if he’s CONFIDENT in himself or not. They want to know what fears they have.
So, if you try to have sex with a woman, WITHOUT even trying to have a meaningful conversation, then, my friend, you’re not getting laid.
Yeah sure, you’ll get laid by showing your sexual side. That’s how I used to get laid when I first started learning the day game. I didn’t talk too much. I didn’t show them my weakness. And, I was extremely sexually assertive. Guess what? It worked, to a certain extent.
But here’s how you can get better results: First of all, you need to BALANCE your desire to have sex, AND your desire to express yourself and figuring out whether or not she’s the woman you’d be interested in emotionally.
I could dedicate a new post on this, but for now, just USE the tip for what it is.
#5 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You Lack Confidence
You really do not believe you were sent on Earth to have sex with A LOT of women that you find attractive. In fact, you think you don’t have anything to offer to them.
You spot an attractive woman in the shopping mall. She makes an eye contact with you, but, instead of returning her smile, you quickly avoid looking at her… because deep down you BELIEVE you’ll offend her by staring at her back, or that you’ll creep her out.
You’ve been rejected a few times in the past, and you’d rather sit behind your computers and spend your time on playing video games or hanging out on PlentyOfFish for love… because you’re deathly afraid of another woman who you think might again shoot you down and break your fragile (and useless) ego.
#6 Reason Why You’re Not Getting Laid In Paris: You Watch Too Much Porn
You watch too much of boob tube and drool over half naked women and overwhelm your mind with terabytes of porn on hours end.
But, regularly dreaming about beautiful naked women has it own consequences: You either start worshipping them (pedestalizing) or treating them like a “crap.”
Porn leads you to have unrealistic views of women, yourself, and sex.
Why would you clean your messy room, groom yourself, join a gym club, and learn to attract beautiful women if you can, for free, day dream about any woman you want for hours end and for as long as you want with just a click of a mouse?
Go out and make it happen.
P.S. So now do you agree with me when I say in order to get laid with women… really fast, you need to TAKE ACTION?
When you see a beautiful women walking down the street, you need to TAKE ACTION.
For example, when you see an attractive girl walking in the street, you MUST approach her and talk with her. And, at least able to hold the conversation for 3 to 15 minutes.
After that, if she’s still hanging around, you should be able to pull the trigger on her (take her on an “instant date,” or exchange numbers) to put pressure on her to make a decision.
If you don’t know how to do all that, and you’re feeling shy, in your head, and afraid of women, then…
Here’s a kick-ass Day Game resource that’ll help you become really good at approaching and talking with women in the streets, and connecting with her, while also displaying your sexual intentions on her and…
OF COURSE.. get laid, really fast.