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7 ‘Deadly’ Mistakes Guys Make With Women

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7 'Deadly' Mistakes Guys Make With Women

Hey,

Most men make all kinds of ‘deadly’ mistakes with women — and they do not even have a clue about it. STOP doing anything else and study these top mistakes, revealed in this article, first.  

Personally, I believe the fastest and the easiest way to SKYROCKET your results with women, almost overnite is to…

… STOP doing all the things that might be hampering your successes with women, right now.

7 ‘Deadly’ Mistakes Guys Make With Women

Here are 7 deadly mistakes guys make with women:

MISTAKE #1: “Making Your Move Before She’s Even Ready”

I have done it more than I can count, so if you’re making this mistake, I can understand your pain.

You see a beautiful chick sitting across the room, and you develop a strong feelings for her — you can’t help it — and you start to have this thought raging in your mind: “If only I could show her how I felt about her, she’d be interested in me…”

If you’re like most men, you probably said this to yourself, countless of times, and you  probably regretted doing it, because you suddenly realize it NEVER works. In fact, demonstrating your “feelings” to a girl, especially in the early stages of the dating process, is a MEGA turn-off to most women.

It’s way better if SHE makes the move first.

This way, you can simply lean back and let HER do most of the WORK.

In fact, this is what one of my exes told me few years ago: “I’d rather be IN LOVE with a guy that BE LOVED by him.

I know, it’s counter-intuitive. But if you pay attention to the scientific data on the differences between men and women… you’ll realize that it’s simply our biological programming.

Women like it more when they’re the one chasing YOU… rather than the other way around.

And, the best part is it’s a lot easier, too…

MISTAKE #2: “Showing ‘too’ much interest and chasing women!”

When you CHASE a girl, you revolve your entire life around her. You are emotionally invested in her more than SHE is invested in you.

Here are few examples:

  • You call or text her MORE than she does to you.
  • You give her MORE compliments than she gives to you.
  • You buy her gifts and drinks just to WIN her affection and she doesn’t do any of that sort to you.

And, when you’re invested more than her, she can feel it, because women are very sensitive to this type of thing, and once a woman senses you’re doing the CHASING, this is what she’ll be thinking about you: “Okay, it is pretty obvious that this guy is into me and I have wrapped him around my finger. And, yeah, he is a ‘nice guy’ and I can have him whenever I want, so for a moment, let me see what else is out there first…”

When you CHASE her, you become one of her options. And, if she’s very attractive, you can already imagine that she has plenty of options, already.

After spending thousands of hours with countless attractive women in the past, here’s what I’ve come to realise (it’s quite shocking): An average woman has at least 3 guys chasing her at any given time in her life… (and if she was going outside and meeting men actively, that number can be MUCH higher!)

That’s why it’s really important for you to be that HIGH VALUE guy that makes her CHASE YOU, rather than the other way around…

MISTAKE #3: “Having no clue how women think”

A man and a woman is entirely different from each other, because a man and a woman can have completely different impressions of the same exact situation.

For example, last week, I got stuck with my girlfriend in an elevator, and when we got out, I realized that we’re both focusing on an entirely different things. I was focusing on the “logical” aspects of things, like how to get the doors open, and how to get her attention, among other things, while she was totally immersed in the different emotions of the experience! She was experiencing fear and excitement, and at the same time, building an emotional bonding with me.

Here’s what I want you to understand: Men are dominated by logic and reasonings, on the other hand, a woman’s mind is directed and dominated by emotion, and the strange thing about it that, most of the time what she is thinking and feeling doesn’t even make any sense to her.

That’s why a woman wants a man who truly understands her on a much deeper level — understands her feelings — which is so valuable and rare to her, just like a football coach is highly valuable to a football player.

And even though “From The Streets…To The Sheets” was initially created to help you build skills to approach, connect, and seduce any woman in the streets, it also comes with a STAGGERING “side effect…”

You’re going to understand her even BETTER than she knows herself…  

Okay, moving on to other mistakes…

MISTAKE #4: “Being the nice guy”

When I was having problems with women and didn’t have any success with women, one thought always confused me: “How come a woman say they like boys to be nice with them (nice guys), but always end up with an abusive jerk?”

I never understood this… until recently when a “light-bulb moment” happened to me.

I was out at a party with my girlfriend and her friends. And, after a couple of drinks, I remember, all of her friends started to complain about all the jerks they were dating, and how they only wanted a nice guy…

Later, I asked my girlfriend about it, and…

Here’s what she told me: “Oh yeah, but that’s just we girls are supposed to say. It makes us look nice and sweet to want a nice guy… but deep down inside us, we don’t FEEL anything for nice guys. So most of us end up dating a jerk, instead.”

Counter-intuitive, isn’t it?

But here’s the good news: You DO NOT have to become a jerk to fire up a strong emotions in her…

MISTAKE #5: “Making too many excuses for yourself (too short, too bald, too broke, too old, etc)”

I notice that a lot of guys who visit our site often have to say things like: “If only I was 1 inch taller, meeting and seducing a woman would be much easier… If only I had lost 30 pounds, I would find me sexy and go out on a date… I’ll start dating women only I starts making more money…”

I totally understand why you say this to yourself, because I used to be that guy too who used to make a lot of excuses (Asian, short, not enough money, poor clothing, etc) to make me feel better about getting rejected and not getting the kind of girl I truly wanted (girly and feminine girls).

I thought it was not me actually, but something outside of me — external thing — that was controlling me and I really didn’t have any control over it…

But, if you look at the guys who did original research on developing a system, you’ll notice that they’re all “old scientists” and “college professors” — old, nerdy, and totally out of shape guys — who didn’t even have hair on their head to speak of, and one of them was even in a wheelchair…

These guys wanted to date all the hot chicks in their college. So they built up Daytime Pickup: From The Cafes, Malls & Streets… To The ‘Bedroom’ (The Natural Progression)” to be the great equalizer… something that could give them an unfair advantage over the tall, good-looking, and muscular boys whose parents were paying everything for them.

Look, every guy on this planet has SOME disadvantage, but at the end of the day, the guy who ends up with that HOT chick is the one who takes MASSIVE ACTION with the ladies… without making any excuses for himself and his desires.

MISTAKE #6: “Trying to impress a woman”

We MEN work hard and we want to be respected for that. I get it, totally…

That’s how we operate.

We work hard, get a promotion, and make more money, and we buy us nice things, and we want other people to know about it.

NOTHING’s wrong about it. We men are entitled to get a fair share of recognition… but, remember this: Never try to impress a woman you’re trying to attract.Why?

Here’s why: If you’re trying to impress a woman, she’ll view it as HUGE insecurity in your part. So don’t do it. Women can smell it from million miles away because they have “sixth” sense to detect male insecurities.

MISTAKE #7: “Not getting help”

I know that as men, we don’t want to look weak or helpful, and that’s why, most guys out there do not even stop and seek for a help when they’re really need one. They do not stop and ask for a direction even if they’re lost.

That is because we men are too proud to try and “figure it all ourselves”…

I had several friends who were really good with women, but I never considered asking for their help.

Before, I used to go out with girls who viewed me only as a friend. And, since, I was such ‘a nice guy’ myself, I followed them wherever they used to go. Fred, one of my close friends, whom I consider is very good with women, wanted to offer me some advice on dating and seduction, but I told him no, it’s okay and I ‘got this.’

So, I did all kinds of stupid mistakes with women, that could have easily been prevented only if I was listening to guys who were really successful with women.

Here’s how I was like: On a date, I used to change all of my plans for her. I would immediately agree on everything she would say. I would listen to her past stories about ‘jerks’ who mistreated her. I would buy flowers, sing songs, write bad poetry, and follow her all day like a young puppy following his master.

After the first date, that girl would never return my calls for the second reason.

I thought I would make my move after I became ‘friends’ with her.

No wonder I got “friendzone” a lot of times during the initial stages of my daygame pickup phase.

One important lesson I learned from all of my “rookie” mistakes with girl was this: You do not get better by doing the same mistakes over and over again. You do not get better by getting rejected over and over.

Most guys never seek out help from guys who are naturals with women, and hence, they never really improve. They only end up being more fearful, anxious, and nervous as they become older.

Now, I am at the point where I know what really turns a woman on… I have no problem meeting women when I’m out in the street.

I know how to get their numbers. I know where to take them on dates, and currently, I am seeing at least 2 to 3 new girls every week.

By this, my quality of life has improved dramatically. I no longer experience that dreaded approach/social anxiety. I know how to weed out uninterested women, and go for the ones that are highly interested in ME.

Go out and make it happen.

Aby

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This system will change your life. It doesn’t matter if you’re shy, short, tall, young, old, bald, or broke, because it’s not your usual be-the-tough-guy dating advice.

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How To Get A Date (Within 15 Minutes)!

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How to get a date

Do you want to learn how to get a date with a girl or a woman?

Going out on a date with someone you already know can be quite fun for both of you, but, asking for a date to a total stranger can be quite difficult if you don’t know how.

That’s why I wrote this article — how to get a date — for you.

Learning few daytime pickup secrets can help you become better at interacting with a girl or a woman you see in the streets, cafes, or malls, and increase your chances of getting a date, later.

Here are few simple tactics you can immediately apply in your daytime pickup on how to get a date:

How to get a date tip #1: Approach her, immediately — in less than 3 seconds

When you see a cute girl walking in the street, you must make your move, quickly.

Do not allow yourself to give more than 3 seconds — the ‘3-second rule’ — to approach a girl or a woman you’d like to meet.

When you don’t approach her as soon as you see her, you mind can come up with all kinds of excuses, like:

  • “Wow, she’s super hot, and I loook like a nerd. Why on earth would she talk to me?”
  • “What if she makes fun of me? What if she laugh at me in front of everyone?”
  • “I will not talk to her now, because she seems busy with her friends.”

… that can stop you from approaching a girl you’d like to meet, immediately.

But, when you don’t give yourself that opportunity, by approaching her within 3 seconds, you don’t give your mind any chance to come up with excuses. Instead, you’ll be ‘in the moment’ and ‘out of your head’ and talking to her.

How to get a date tip #2: Deliver your opener… with a smile.

Your opener doesn’t have to be original or creative. It could be any pickup lines you may have memorized from the Internet, or it could be just a simple “Hi.”

Once you’ve said “Hi” to her… do not immediately deliver your opener. Instead, take a loooooooooooooong pause, smile, and lock your eyes with hers, and deliver this opener.

“It’s random I know, but I had to come over to you and say hi because I think you look really great in that outfit and I like your style. You also look really beautiful. Tell me something about you”

How to get a date tip #3: Handle her objections.

Once you approach a girl, one of these three things might happen:

#1 She smiles at you. She becomes friendly, and asks you questions.

#2 She listens to you but doesn’t open up to you.

#3 She acts ‘rude’ towards you and tries to walk away.

Out of all these three situations, the 3rd one is my favourite because it challenges me as a man, and gives me an opportunity display my ‘positive qualities’ and ‘personality.’

Here’s how to handle some objections a girl might throw at you:

Objection #1: “I have a boyfriend.”

You: Talk, talk, talk
Girl: Sorry, I have a boyfriend
You: That’s awesome, so what do you do for fun?

You act indifferent towards her response and keep conversing with her. If you just do this correctly, a girl or a woman will view you as someone who demands respect in an interaction.

Objection #2: She walks away while you’re talking to her.

You: Talk, talk, talk
Girl: Talks for a little while and walks away.
You: Smile, Oh, come on now. You’re too ‘classy’ to be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if I’m making you uncomfortable in any way then just walk away. Runaway girl, runaway girl (sing playfully). Anyways… what do you do for fun?”

Let me break this down to you.

First of all, you set up an expectation for her. You tell her she’s too ‘classy’ to walk away, and, of course, she wants to be perceived as someone who is classy, and so she’ll stay for a bit.

And then, you tell her to walk away, which is ‘reverse psychology.’

And finally, you act as if nothing happened by asking her a question, which engages her back in the conversation.

Objection #3: She acts ‘rude’ to you and doesn’t acknowledge your presence…

You: Talk, talk, talk
Girl: Says something rude like, “Why are you talking to me?” or she doesn’t look at you, or something to that effect.
You: Why are you acting like this? Why can’t you be yourself? I don’t know where you’re coming from but where I’m from, people are ‘real.’ If you’re not going to be real, I’m just walking away (act as if you’re about to leave). I know this is not who you really are. This is just a protection shield.

If the girls act rude, you call her out on her behaviour. It demonstrates you’re a man who demands respect in an interaction. This is very powerful stuff.

How to get a date tip #4: Lead the interaction.

Once you’ve overcome her objections, and if she’s still there, you must lead the interaction.

One of the best ways to lead the interaction is, instead of asking her questions, you make a statement.

For example, instead of asking, “What do you do for a living?” you can lead the interaction by telling her a story, like:

“I do street arts and I love it. I discovered this passion while I was in the US. One fine day, I visited an art exhibition and was immediately hooked by some of the creative street arts done by artists, who were homeless before they became really famous…”

… or any other story about WHAT YOU DO.

Instead of asking her, “How was your day?” tell her a story about how your day way by saying, “You don’t kno what happened today. As I was walking down the street, I met this strange looking man digging a sinkhole in the middle of a cornfield. He wanted to give me a tour of his new construction, so he took me inside. Getting inside was really diffcult, but as soon as my eyes fell on the interior work of his new construction, I was immediately hooked. I asked him why did he wanted to build a sinkhole. He said he wanted to build it for children because they might find it cool.”

How to get a date tip #5Make her invest.

Once you’ve lead the interaction, you make her invest in the conversation, too. By giving her the opportunity to contribute in the interaction, you’ll not only get to know her better, but also make her feel relaxed and at ease.

For example, once you’ve lead — you shared her your story — ask her, “What about you? WHAT DO YOU DO for a living?”

And, when she opens her mouth…

How to get a date tip #6: Listen to her, actively.

Active listening is a skill you can develop.

When you’re actively listening to a girl or a woman, you’re basically focusing on other person and what they’re telling YOU.

As an active listener, you should repeat back, in your own words, what the other person has just said to you.

It ensures that you understood what the other person was talking about. It also demonstrates that you’re interested in her as a person. It expresses an understanding of her feelings.

Here’s how you can listen to her, actively:

  1. Ask her questions: Ask her what she means and how it makes her feel. It’ll help you understand a situation better.
  2. Rephrase and feedback: Rephrase what she told you, in your own words, and feed it back to her, which helps you understand her better and build a dialogue with her.
  3. Summarize: When you summarize what she tells you, it shows that you were paying attention to her and you want to understand her.
  4. Shut up and listen to her: Do not be eager to fill up the silence whenever there’s an awkward pause.

Do not answer right away.

Take a pause for 3 to 5 seconds before answering something.

Just learn how to listen without interrupting. It’ll improve your conversation skills, 10 times.

How to get a date tip #7: Take her on an instant date.

During the day, when you approach a girl, you’re a complete stranger. That’s why a lot of girls avoid talking to strangers because they’re just bad people.

It’s not their fault, though. Their parents, society, media, and the school system have drummed how bad a stranger is into their skull.

But the fact is… she’s a woman and you’re a man.

You could be a dangerous man, but chances are she might never know about it.

So, if you want to make her call you, or text you back and show up on a date later that week, not flake on you, you must make her feel comfortable with you first.

And then to make her go somewhere with you — show up on a date and take her back to your place — she has to ‘trust’ you, too.

And, to build that comfort and trust with her, you must take her on an instant date — a regular date, except it, happens on the moment. You do not have to wait for days before asking her out.

Here’s the good part: When you take her on an instant date, you dramatically reduce the chances of her flaking on you and significantly increase her chances of picking up a phone and responding to your calls and going out later that week with you.

Next time, when you realise you’re talking to a girl more than 10 minutes, take her on an instant date.

For now, for at least a couple of months, forget about getting her number. Instead, focus on taking her on an ‘instant date.’

For example, at a climax of the interaction — when she’s laughing and giggling with you — and you sense there’s a good vibe between the two of you, simply tell her, “Hey, you know what? I’m really thirsty. Let’s go grab a real quick drink.”

If you can take her on an instant date, the ‘how to get a date’ issue becomes a non-issue because you’ll immediately stand out from the pack, and give you an opportunity to show her that she can be safe with you.

Go out and try these daytime pickup tactics today.
Aby

P.S. If you want to stand out from the pack — by taking her on an instant date rather than asking for her phone number (a lot of guys do this) — get to know her more before you actually go out on a date with her, and decrease your chances of her ‘flaking’ on you…

… and learn all the insights, mindsets, and tactics on how to get a date, then you need to get a hand on this killer resource.

9 Amazing Dating Tips For Men (Make Her Obsessed About YOU)

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8 Dating Tips For Men That'll Make Her Obsessed About YOU

Deadly dating tips for men (make her obsessed about you)

Looking for dating tips for men?

A lot of guys have one common question: “What’s the best way to approach a girl, without getting rejected? What to say to her after I approach her? When should I make my move?” among many other questions.

If you’ve been asking yourself these questions, you need dating tips for men that actually works, not some random tips you’ve found on the internet.

When it comes to dating a girl or a woman, a lot of dynamics are involved.

  • You need to approach her, first.
  • You need to deliver your opener.
  • Then you need to get her attention so that she doesn’t immediately leave.

And then, you need to handle her objections like a pro… so that she doesn’t act rude to you and keep on interacting with you.

And, once you’ve overcome her objections, you need to engage her into the interaction by displaying your personality (a lot of guys don’t do this), leading the interaction, and being both interesting and interested.

If you don’t know how to do any one of these things, then use these dating tips for men to get better results with women, starting today:

Dating tips for men #1: Approach her, immediately

When I see a girl I’d like to meet at public places — in the streets, at the bars, cafes, or at malls — I make my move towards her, even though I am feeling nervous and afraid.

When I do this, I feel tension in my body, and confidence, which wasn’t already there before, starts to radiate through my body.

Dating tips for men #2: Grab her attention

As I move towards her, I go and grab her attention. It’s an important step, but a lot of guys don’t do it.

If you do not command her attention, then she won’t be able to process what you’re saying to her.

So go and grab her attention. How?

Here’s how:

If she’s walking all by hersefl towards you, walk straight towards her, slowly, and force her to come to a complete stop.

Or, if she’s walking away from you, run after her — from the side, of course — and ask her to stop.

If you do this correctly, she’ll have no other option but to stop.

Or, if she’s sitting down, sit down near her, smile, and make yourself comfortable, and then

Dating tips for men #3: Deliver your opener

Once you’ve managed to grab her attention, say, “Hey… (and then, take a loooooooooooooong pause)…”

Then smile slowly, lock your eyes with her, and deliver ‘this line’ on her:

“Hey, I know it’s totally random and I’m a complete stranger to you, but you know what, as I was walking by, I saw you, and I just wanted to tell you that I like your style and that you are, really, really beautiful. My name is <your name>. Tell me something about you.”

Dating tips for men #4: Be prepared for contingency

When you deliver your opener, three things can happen.

  1. She likes it and smiles back at you. She becomes friendly with you. She asks you questions.
  2. She sort of likes it. She’s not enthusiastic about it, though. She’s just being polite and sticks around a bit to see what you have to say.
  3. She gives you one of many objections or tries to walk away.

Out of all these 3 scenarios, the ‘3rd’ type of objection is what I love the most because it challenges me as a man, and allows to express my ‘personality’ and ‘positive qualities’ to a girl I’m talking to.

Here are a few ‘3rd type’ of objections you might face from a girl and (how to handle it):

Scenario #1: “I have a boyfriend.”

You: Deliver your opener
Girl: I’m sorry, but I have a boyfriend.
You: Awesome, so what do you do for fun?

Did you notice what you actually did? You didn’t even notice her objection.

One of the most powerful ways to deal with objections is to be INDIFFERENT.

Scenario #2: She walks away while you’re still talking to her

You: Talk, talk, talk
Girl: Talks for a while and walks away.
You: (Smile) Oh, come on now. You’re too ‘classy’ to be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if I’m making you uncomfortable in any way then just walk away. Runaway girl, runaway girl (sing playfully). Anyways… what do you do for fun?”

Let me ‘break down‘ this for you.

First of all, you set up an expectation for her. You tell her she’s way too “classy” to walk away, and of course, she wants to be perceived as classy so she’ll stay for a bit.

And you tell her to walk away, which is ‘reverse psychology.’

And you act like it never happened by asking her a question, which engages her back in the conversation.

Scenario #3: She’s “rude” and doesn’t acknowledge your presence.

You: Talk, talk, talk
Girl: Says something rude like, “Why are you talking to me?” or she doesn’t look at you, or something to that effect.
You: Why are you acting like this? Why can’t you be yourself? I don’t know where you’re from but where I’m from, people are ‘real.’ If you’re not going to be real, I’m just going to walk away (act as if you’re about to leave). I know this is not who you really are. This is just a protection shield.

You could even say…

You: I know, just look around you. There are a lot of ‘creeps’ out there trying to get something from you. I’m not one of those guys so don’t treat me like one of them. I know you’re a cool person deep down inside. I’m almost sure. So let’s give this a shot one more time, I’m Joe.

See how you called her out on how she was behaving? It demonstrates that you are a man who demands respect in an interaction. This is very powerful stuff.

Dating tips for men #5: Imagine you are ‘a gift’

From now on, your job as a daytime pickup artist is to… provide a lot of “positive emotions” to every woman you meet.

You give them an unforgettable experience. You take them on an ’emotional rollercoaster’ ride with you, away from the mundane world she’s already in.

It might not make any sense to you now, but it works incredibly well for you.

When I go out and pick up girls, I feel really happy 🙂 because I know I’m making her day.

Then getting results with women — getting more phone numbers, instant dates, and even a relationship — becomes super easy because you know you have something to offer to them: a lot of positive EMOTIONS.

Let me ask you a question: What if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that only if women knew you, they’d fall for YOU?

So are you conveying your ‘personality’ in an interesting way? Is she getting to know you better, or are you just talking out of your ass?

Next time you’re out on a date with a girl or a woman, take 5 minutes and IMAGINE you are someone she’s been waiting for all of her life. She’s been dreaming about YOU, read about you in books, has seen you in movies, and you’re the guy she talks about endlessly with her best friends.

Now here’s the catch: She’ll find out that it’s YOU only after she’s gotten to know you.

In order for this to happen, you’ll have to show her your ‘personality.’

So next time you’re interaction with a girl, think you’re ‘a gift’ and imagine you’re giving that “gift” to her.

By thinking and believing you’re a gift, you’ll instantly have the upper hand in the interaction (and not the other way around).

Dating tips for men #6: Be interesting… and interested

I want you to go back at some point in your life and recall an interaction where someone talked way toooooooo much. It was as if you’re watching a TV because you couldn’t contribute to the conversation at all, wasn’t it?

Or, can you recall an interaction with someone where the other person kept asking you question after question, without really contributing anything at all?

How do you solve this major conversational flaw?

Here’s how: Strive for balance.

As a man, you take the lead, but also get her to follow your lead. You make her invest in the interaction. You also make it easier for her to contribute to the interaction.

Dating tips for men #7: Lead the interaction… first.

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” ~ Gandhi

I want you to take a pause and think back to all the conversations you’ve had in the past with women.

Were you comfortable, relaxed, and at ease during the interaction? Were you sharing ‘secrets’ and vulnerabilities with each other? Were you exchanging funny stories from your lives? Were you speaking formally or casually, like friends do? Were you able to build substance and familiarity?

Listen.

If you want her to do something, you must do it… first. If you want her to open up to you, you must open yourself up to her… first. You lead the interaction first and expect her to follow.

Next time you’re having a conversation with someone, instead of asking a question, make a statement. Instead of saying, “What do you do for a living?” tell them a “short story” about what you do. Instead of asking, “How are you?” say, “I’m feeling so happy today, you don’t even have a clue why.”

And, watch how people respond to you.

Dating tips for men #8: Avoid hesitation.

Be firm and let the other person in the interaction know WHAT you want.

Instead of muttering, “Umm, I don’t know… I was thinking… perhaps… um, we could hang out sometime…” say, “Hey, I’m going to a live concert this Friday evening. It’s going to be a blast, and you should tag along.”

Do not flinch. Do not be nervous.

Dating tips for men #9: Build familiarity.

After you’ve grabbed her attention through your presence, you want to get to know her on multiple levels to build a strong connection with her. No, you don’t have to know her entire life story, but just make sure to touch base to build both familiarity and substance with her.

You want to…

  • display your personality throughout the interaction.
  • figure out what makes her so special, and
  • what makes her tick.

You want mutual appreciation. You want her to remember you when she wakes up the next morning. You want to make a “strong impression” on her so that she won’t stop rambling about you with her best friend the moment your conversation ends.

By following any of these dating tips for men, you immediately stand out from all the other guys she’s met in the past, because you’re not answering her questions in a ‘boring way.’ You’re demonstrating a lot of personality by being comfortable sharing your thoughts with her. And, when you lead the conversation (she knows right off the bat that you’re a good communicator.)

It also gives her a ‘window of opportunity’ to see how you view the world around you and what type of person you are. It makes her feel comfortable and easier to open herself up to you.

Now, go out and make it happen.

Aby

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How To Pass Women’s Tests (With These 6 Ninja Tactics)

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If you’ve approached and talked with women, chances are you’ve most likely been “shit tested.A shit test is a test that women throw at men so that they can immediately figure out whether or not you’re worthy of their time.

The moment you open your mouth to speak to her, she wants to right away, whether you’ll step to the challenge, like a real man, or run away with your tail between your legs.

Do women test men?

Subconsciously, a woman is looking for a CONFIDENT man who understands what tests are.

So veiw shit tests as a small bump on the road. If you manage not to get bothered about it, then you’ll quickly move to the kingdom of attractive women and lots of sex.

How women test men examples

Shit tests can take the form of questions, statements, and bad behaviours.

Let’s look at each of them, separately…

1) A question

For example, you say something to her, and she might say,

  • “Do you always use the same line with all the women?”
  • “Why are you talking to me?”
  • “Can you hold this bag while I talk to my friend on the phone?”

And, sometimes, she could even ask you a question to put you down, or simply to make fun of you.

For example, she might say,

  • “Why are you wearing that weird t-shirt?”
  • “Why do you always forget to do that?”

Tests can also take the form of…

2) A statement

… which could be asking for a favour or a demand.

For example, she could ask,

  • “Go buy me a drink.”
  • “Take me for shopping.”

Or, it could also be a blow-off like,

  • “I’m waiting for someone right now.”
  • “I’m not interested.”

And, shit tests can also be in the form of…

3) A bad behaviour

For example, you’re talking to this girl and she starts to flirt with other guys. She might even kiss other guys just to see how you’ll react to all that.

So now you understand WHY it’s really CRUCIAL to pass these tests? Yeah, you need to pass these shit tests… so that you can also have as much sex as you want in life.

You see, women shit tests guys all the time just to know if they have what it takes to make it happen.

Yeah, that’s right.

That’s what women really want YOU to DOmake it happen. Even if there is not a possibility of a future relationship with her, she wants to immediately know if you have what it takes to make it happen.

Here are few tactics you can immediately apply in your interactions with women to pass almost every shit tests she throws at you like a real man and quickly establish yourself as a man who can make it hapen:

Tactic #1: “Always Be Control Of Your Emotions”

Here’s what I mean by when I say you must always be control of your emotions.

  • You must NOT take her tests personally and act like a wounded animal.
  • You must continue interacting with her as if nothing has happened.
  • You must NOT show her how she’s hurt your feelings.

You have to take it for what it is — a shit test, which is nothing but just a minor bump on the road to plenty of sex.

Here’s the mindset to adopt: “Okay, this is simply a ‘test.’ I am ready for this. Not a problem. It’s easy and I can handle this. I am completely indifferent about what she just said.”

By thinking like this, you immediately become more relaxed and “IN THE MOMENT” in your interaction. Plus, it helps you to come up with ‘witty’ things to say and make the interaction even more EXCITING and FUN.

In our free banter line report (link below), I’m going to reveal to you all kinds of ‘witty’ and bold things to say, and different techniques you can apply in ANY situation. b, they’re very easy-to-learn and apply in your daily interactions with women.

Tactic #2: “Selective Hearing Turnaround”

This is an important lesson to learn.

Basically, she can say whatever she wants to, BUT…

… you ONLY hear it (or interpret it) WHATEVER you want to hear (or happen), and then, respond to her. This proves that you’re an alpha male — one of the strongest and masculine men that she’s been dying to meet.

Here’s an example: A simple technique that demonstrates how you can turnaround whatever she says and responds it back to her.

Her: “I would NEVER go out on a date with you?”
You: “You ALWAYS want to go out on a date with me? Wow, that’s creepy.”

Easy, wasn’t it? There was NOTHING to memorize.

You use whatever she says to you, and you say it back to her. To pull this off, you’ll have to be listening to her. You’ll have to be present ‘in the moment,’ not thinking about WHAT to say next. You can’t be in your head.

You simply listen to what she says, and she’ll tell you exactly what to say to her.

A powerful technique, isn’t it?

She’ll most likely think, “Wow. This guy gets it.”

Tactic #3: “Arousal Turnaround”

You can take the previous technique a little further by taking whatever she says to you and TURNING it around into something that’s arousing you.

For example, if she says,

  • “Oh, you looked like a hungry pig… hitting all those girls.”

You interpret everything she says as what she actually wants to do — i.e. talk dirty to you, make you horny, and eventually sleep with you at her place.

By responding like this, your prove her that you really know what you want and that you’re that kind of guy.

You’re still going to see whether you actually go out with her because I always want you to have a choice.

But at least, you’ll have that choice, because you’ll have blown through that test. You’ll have decimated that test.

You’ll have overcome it to such an extent, that she’ll just do whatever you please with her.

Tactic #4: “Sexual Question Interpretation”

If she asks you a question, you interpret that question as something ‘sexual.’

For example, she might ask whatever anything, but your response could be something like, “So, you’re asking to have sex with you at your place?”

You interpret her question as her wanting to do something with you, and you accuse her of it.

Basically, you’re creating your own interpretation.

You can even respond with a statement, like:

“Look, if you really want to make out (or have sex) with me in the bathroom (at your place), why don’t you just come out and say it.”

You’re actually saying what’s really true. She wouldn’t be talking with you if she was not interested in you.

You’re proving her that you know WHAT she actually wants. So throw it out there.

So, I guess by now, you’ve understood the turnaround, which is basically just the opposite of what she says.

  • You’ve got, “Are you asking me to _________________?”
  • And, “Look, if you really want to ________________, just come out and say.”

By saying these statements, you’re pretty much implying, “Look, we’re both adults, don’t beat around the bush. Just come out and say what you really mean, and let’s get over with all these other nonsense!”

Tactic #5: “The Reprimand”

Be stern with women to pass her test, but with a smirk 😉 on your face, to let her know, subtly, that you’re willing to STAND UP for yourself.

So no matter what she says to you, you respond her by saying,

  • “Don’t you dare talk to me like that again!”
  • “I don’t like the tone of your voice. Change it immediately.”

Women LOVE being told what to do and super attracted to a man who’s brave enough to do it!

They’ll instantly comply and do whatever you want.

Tactic #6: “Own, Amplify, and Ignore”

This technique is super powerful. I call it “Own, Amplify, and Ignore.”

It’s when a girl is accusing you of some kind of bad behaviour like hitting on lots of chicks.

So the first thing you’ll do is agree with her, by saying something like…

“Yes, you’re right.”

Then you amplify it by saying, “It’s worse than that,”

… and you ignore her and move on.

Own, amplify, and ignore.

A very powerful concept to apply in your daily interactions with the ladies. If you apply it correctly, OF COURSE, you’ll make yourself irresistible to women.

Thanks for reading

Aby

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How To Talk To Women (Without Being a ‘Creep’)

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how to talk to women even if you are shy and afraid

Don’t know how to talk to women in the streets, cafes, malls, or any other public places? Then this post, titled “How to talk to women in the streets,” is for you.

These days, you do not have to go to a bar or a club to meet pickup women. You can find all sorts of women in all kinds of public places — at the cafes, malls, metro stations, bus stations, in the streets, library, museums, etc. The possibilities are endless.

But, here’s a catch: You need to learn how to talk to women during the daytime in public places, which is  slightly differently than how you’d talk to women during the night — at a bar or a club.

First of all, you need figure out whether…

She wants to be approached or not.

Before you even walk over to talk to women, you need to first look around to see if she’s approachable. For example, if you see a woman with another man or with her friends, that’s a huge sign she probably doesn’t want you to approach her.

If you see a woman with a pair of earphone plugged in her ears, then you need to understand that she doesn’t want to be approached. She is in her own little bubble and doesn’t want any stranger come up and intrude her world.

And, if she’s doing anything to look busy — reading a book or playing with her phone — she probably doesn’t want you to approach her.

But, if she seems bored and doing nothing much, then congratulations! She is most likely to be willing to talk to you… unless you do not ‘creep’ her out — especially in the first few minutes in the interaction.

How to approach a woman, properly

Now that you know she’s open to being approached to — she is not sending any obvious cues that she wants to be left alone — you need to make your move, properly, otherwise, you’ll set yourself up for a major rejection.

For example, if she is sitting down,you should walk over to her and sit down beside her, not stand up and look down on her, and talk to her. Do not sit too close or too far. Sitting close might freak her out while sitting too far might not seem like you two are having a conversation.

Or, if she’s standing, you need to walk straight up over to her, or from the side, and deliver a simple, “Hi”… with a smile to test if she is interested to talk to.

If she looks at you, and then, looks away immediately, then you need to understand that she probably doesn’t want you to keep talking to her. But, if she says “Hi” back to you, that a huge sign she’s interested.

After you’ve exchanged a simple “Hi,” it’s time to say something before the interaction gets awkward.

How to start to talk to women

You need to ALWAYS keep one important thing in mind when you’re trying to talk to a woman in the streets, cafes, malls, or any other public places: don’t be a creep.

What do I mean by ‘creep’?

Here’s what I mean: Just act normal. Talk to her as if you’re talking to one of your buddy. DO NOT pull out any fancy pick up lines and use on her.

Try to talk about her.

For example, if she’s wearing nice earrings, you can say, “I really like your earrings. Where did you get it from?”

Or, if she looks like a foreigner, ask her where she is from. And, then, share one of your travel stories with her, too.

Whatever she says back, try to pick out a word or two from that sentence and talk endlessly about it.

For example: If she says, “I’m from Italy, and I came here in Paris for a weeklong vacation.’

If you were paying attention to her, you’d realize that she just gave you 3 key conversation topics to talk about — Italy, Paris, and vacation. Now, you could talk about either one of those conversation topics untill your gum starts to hurt, or until she asks about YOU.

Or, if you’re still struggling what to say to her, then you could simply say, “Hey, you look interesting, what’s your name?”

Above all, DO NOT make it about her looks though – if you tell her she looks cute, she’ll immediately label you as a creep.

If the conversation stalls, it’s probably because she might not be interested. A few awkward pauses are fine, but if you have to carry the entire conversation with her, that means she’s only being polite talking with you.

How not to be ‘creepy’

If you’ve tried to strike up a conversation with a girl and she’s clearly not interested, do not keep trying. Let her go and do whatever she was doing, move on, and find another girl to talk to. If you keep on talking to her, it’ll only make her feel more uncomfortable, and, most importantly, it will lead either of you nowhere.

If you keep on trying, even after she said no, she won’t find you interesting. So stop it.

Just because a woman happens to be in the same public space you are in, it doesn’t mean that she owes it to you to have a conversation with you. If you manage to pick up a girl, congratulations … but do not get embarrassed — or act hurtful — when you find most women aren’t interested in you.

Thanks for reading,

Abishek

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5 Masculine Traits That ATTRACT Women, Instantly

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5 masculine traits women desire in a man

Back in the old days, it wasn’t that difficult to be a man.

You grew a moustache, drank beers and whiskey, and fought with total strangers in the streets. You smoked meat, smelt like diesel fuel, and women appreciated you for it.

At least, that’s how it was back in the day. I have no idea, I wasn’t born during the 30s.

But, let me tell you this: you should not sigh away from displaying your manly habits to women just because you think they might not like it.

Just like you’re attracted to women’s feminine traits that makes her so attractive, she’s gravitated to all your masculine traits that attract women.

Here are 5 masculine traits that attract women, almost instantly:

1. Stand up for yourself, more

Women get turned ON when you are not scared of a confrontation.

In the past, I lived my life thinking just the opposite.

I thought if I stood up for a bully, I would somehow turn a girl off because I thought I was not being cool, calm, and collected.

Let me tell you about me: I am not a fighter. In fact, I have never got into a fight with anyone while I was in school.

But in recent days, I’ve been taking no bullshit — especially in social situations — from anyone, and it’s giving me better results.

Let me give you an example.

Few months ago, I was at a birthday party of one of my closest friends, and I met a guy who was getting on my nerves for no particular reason. Not only that, this lunatic was harassing almost everyone else at the party. All of a sudden, he then bumped into me and saying nasty things to me while I was walking towards the bathroom. I shouted at him, saying, if he has anything to say to me, we could both have a conversation outside.

It was a very unpleasant situation. Almost everything — the music, the conversations, and the laughter — came down to a dead stop. Really, it was like a scene in a movie, where the needle scratches off the record. But he backed down eventually, I walked over and sat next to a girl I had been talking and apologized for getting so worked up.

“Sorry, I am usually not that guy, anyway,” I said.

She didn’t even take a second to reply.

“Do not apologize. You just got me so f#ckin’ horny.”

Yeah, that’s what she told me, exactly.

Now, of course, you won’t get that type of direct response from a girl always, but many times where I’ve stood up for myself, I’ve noticed that it has worked out for myself very well.

This applies to your opinions and values as well.

Be stubborn and do not give up on an issue, easily.

Yeah, I know, it is contradictory to everything you might have learned — creating rapport, playing it calm, cool, and collected, etc. — but that’s what women really like.

Warning: That doesn’t mean you go out and look for fights. Nobody wants to be with a guy who is over-aggressive and ruins others nights (being that guy won’t get you laid.)

Related: How to pass a woman’s test.

2. Get a new haircut.

Most modern men are obsessed with over-grooming, but you only need a really good old-fashioned haircut.

You do not need to go crazy on this and get a haircut every other week before you go out for daytime pickup. You only need a haircut every 5 to 6 weeks or so.

But make sure to go.

Just ask any woman, and they’ll immediately tell you hair is one of the first things she’ll judge you on.

Listen.

If you looked groomed, clean, and healthy, you tell her, subtly, that you’re good for breeding. It’s that plain and simple.

And, make sure to go to a “barber shop” like a real man, not to a “hairstylist” or “salon.”

Why?

Well, for various reasons…

Firstly, it is cheaper.

And, secondly, if you to a barbershop regularly, any barber who is really good at his work will be quickly able to see your current hairstyle and give you a good haircut from there.

You might also benefit if you learn few haircut terms and styles before you sit on the chair. Knowing if you prefer a “Low and tight, high and tight, and slick back, etc” will save you a lot of time.

Also, if getting your neck shaves with a straight razor isn’t manly, then I don’t really know what is.

3. Dress like a man.

Women are also going to judge you based on how you dress. So dressing your age is super critical.

If you’re a 25-year-old but still dress like a teenager — wearing t-shirts that cover yur body and jeans hanging low on the waist — don’t do it.

Instead, wear shirts and pants that fit you well.

For shoes, when you’re not training, don’t wear trainers, or extravagant sneakers. That’s for the kids.

Anything casual, be it dress, shoes, and boots, is good. And, if you want to wear a sneaker, stick with the classics like Van Eras, Chuck Taylors, or Sperry Top-Siders.

4. Self-improvement and ambition.

You should always be chasing your DREAMS and strive to live your life to the fulles. You should always be trying to do better in whatever you’re doing. DO NOT not settle for anything less.

Having big goals, vision, and dreams for your life, is extremely sexy to women.

Important thing: You must actually TAKE ACTION and go after all those things you talk and dream about. Women don’t phoney men, and, as time passes by, she’ll eventually find out really who you are .

A real man always sticks to his word, and when he does that, he instantly STANDS OUT from all other beta males.

Last week, while I was having a conversation with this new girl I was dating, she said something to me that I still remember:

“It’s awesome, you always did what you said you will. I haven’t met a guy who does that.”

She remembered that as a unique quality of mine that instantly separated me from other guys, and that’s what kept her attracted to me.

5. Excellent communication skills.

Most guys lack one ‘major’ skill — which is also a ‘heart’ of any interaction — that keeps them from getting girls. It’s the one vital skill that separates a beginner in the game from the pros: their inability to communicate well with a woman.

A lot of guys lose girls not because they’re short, ugly, poor, but simply because of poor — ineffective — communication skill.

Whether you’re sharing a story about a foreign city you just visited last month, you’re presenting an idea to your boss and the team at the office, or asking for a direction to a “stranger” in the streets, you need to communicate effectively.

I’m not going to sugarcoat things though, there’s much more than just communication, but it’s the KEY skill to a woman’s heart.

When you learn how to talk with women effectively, you’ll easily able to …

  • Get the type of life you’ve always dreamt ofwhenever and however you want it.
  • Make women feel great by spiking all kinds of “feel-good emotions” so that you have more control over the interaction (and, even predict the outcome of the interaction).
  • Express yourself clearly to others so that everyone understands you…
  • And, most importantly, get BETTER results with women — more phone numbers, dates (or “instant dates”), a girlfriend or even a wife, effortlessly.

Thanks for reading,
Aby

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How To Turn Her ON Without Touching Her (Or Saying A Word)!

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How to Instantly Escalate Women… (Without Getting Afraid)
How to Instantly Escalate Women… (Without Getting Afraid)

Most guys fear to reveal their interest in a woman and as a result, get stuck in the “attraction phase.”

They do this because they’ve been brainwashed by a lot of so-called dating/seduction experts that attraction and seduction are two separate things. That you need to build attraction first and try to seduce a girl second.

Personally, I DO NOT believe that’s true.

I believe that these two phases are happening at the same time. In fact, I believe the fastest and the most effective seductions are happening at the same time.

Here’s a killer mindset you need to internalize: escalation is an attractive quality.

In fact, escalation is the key factor in getting a woman interested in you in the first place.

Making a bold move, particularly only after a couple of minutes into the interaction displays confidence and instantly makes a woman notice YOU.

So you must be wondering, “How to build an escalation vibe?”

Rapid escalation is not about groping or catcalling a woman as she walks by you. In fact, it’s the opposite: rather than playing the “verbal game (giving her compliments, for e.g.) and “physical game” (touching her) on her, you focus on building your, what I like to call, “escalation vibe.”

What do I mean by this?

By “escalation vibe” I mean the tone of your interaction has to quickly shift from being “friendly” and “social” to being more “flirty, “serious,” and “seductive.”

Here are a few examples of “escalation vibe”:

Holding a long and seductive eye contact with her.
Moving really close in her space.
Being comfortable with silence.

Simply by placing a little bit of “seductive vibe,” you can create A LOT of tension, which can be felt as “sexual tension” — a sexual chemistry felt by a man and a woman.

Being “creepy” vs building a connection

The sexual tension you build through your “seductive vibe” is quite similar to the physical symptoms (blushing, heart beating fast, and feeling nervous) she feels when she is interested in a man.

On the other hand, if she doesn’t like your “vibe,” she’ll interpret the tension as being awkward, and she might look at you with a “you are creepy” look on her face.

So if you want to be a true seducer, not an entertainer, there’s a small chance of this happening — you being labelled as creepy. But don’t panic. If she doesn’t like your vibe, she’ll only reject you non-verbally and you can go and seduce another woman.

Remember, you didn’t confess your feelings to her nor you tried to kiss her and failed.

On the other hand, if she has some ATTRACTION in you, the tension you create will make her gravitate towards you even more. That’s when you shift gears from being a “sort of interesting guy” to an “extremely sexy” guy… within a matter of seconds.

“So how to escalate with a woman?” you wonder.

It’s easy, if you know how: Instead of displaying your interest verbally (storytelling or complimenting her) or physically (trying to kiss her), you display your interest THROUGH YOU VIBE.

If you do it correctly, the sexual tension will automatically start to build itself, and if she’s already interested in you, she’ll want to release that tension soon (she “secretly” hopes that you’re feeling this non-verbal connection, too, and not only her).

Here’s how to release some of her tension: grab and then caress her hand.

If you haven’t already touched her, the first time you touch her hand creates a fire of passion, which can make her to caress your hand, too. It’s just like when you first touched a woman’s hand and you both immediately felt a powerful physical connection.

Seducing her “non-verbally”

Many dating/seduction “experts” advise you on escalating either verbally or physically. For instance, they’ll ask you to touch her A LOT, tease her A LOT, and then go in for the kiss close.

But, I think it’s even more powerful to escalate with seductive eye gaze, proximity, and silence… than anything, you could ever say verbally or do physically. In fact, it can backfire.

For example, touching her A LOT can decrease sexual tension because she already knows your intentions.

Now, I know that a lot of guys out there still see escalation as this scary moment of truth where they’ve got to put it all on the line.

But, here’s the good news: escalating the vibe is quite easy to do and 100% risk-free, verbally. Plus, you only need to be a little bit more silent, listen, and enjoy the AMAZING women who’re right in front of you.

Now doesn’t that sound something any man can do?

Go out and make it happen

Aby

7 “Deadly” Mistakes Men Make With Women (And What To Do About It)

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7 deadly mistakes men make with women

Howdy,

It’s Aby and here’s a brand new post for you.

This post is called: 7 “Deadly” Mistakes Most Guy Make With Women

If you already don’t know me, let me introduce myself to you first. I am Abishek Rana, an “expert” who helps shy and afraid guys meet, connect, and seduce any beautiful women in the streets.

Over the past 7 years, I literally transformed myself from a shy and nerdy guy dating and seducing multiple HOT women in town. Over these years, I have also coached 100+ guys, and recently, released my ground-breaking system, Daytime Pickup: From The Cafes, Malls & Streets… To The ‘Bedroom’ (The Natural Progression).

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After coaching 100s of guys from around the world, I have realised one key thing: Most guys make “deadly” mistakes with women and they don’t even have a clue about it.

So, if you’re struggling with women, stop for a while and study these top mistakes most guys make with women.

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Now let’s dive right into the topic…

7 Deadly Mistakes Guys Make With Women (And What To Do About It)

MISTAKE #1: Displaying your ‘feelings’ for her even before she is ready

I understand. It has happened to me countless times.

Most guys develop strong feelings for a woman, really fast, even after the 2nd or 3rd date, when the girl is not even sure about her feelings towards him.

“If only she knew how I felt about her, she’d be interested in me…” is how most guys think.

If you’re like most guys, you probably did this to yourself and regretted doing it, because you realize it hardly ever works. In fact, displaying your ‘feelings’ to a girl, especially early in the dating process, is a MEGA turn-off to a woman.

It’s way better if SHE makes the move, first.

If she does make the first move, you can then simply lean back and let HER do most of the legwork.

In fact, this is exactly what one of my EXs told me a few years ago:

“I’d rather be IN LOVE with a guy that BE LOVED by him.”

I know, it’s not how we men think. But if you know how men and women actually think and behave… you’ll instantly realize that it’s simply our biological programming.

Women like it more when they’re the one chasing YOU rather than the other way around.

MISTAKE #2: Showing too much interest and CHASING women!

By ‘chasing’ in dating terms, we mean you’re invested more in her than she is, which can mean anything from calling (or texting) her too much, giving her too many compliments, or buying her too many gifts.

Women can instantly feel it, as they’re very sensitive to this type of thing.

And, when a woman senses that you’re CHASING HER, here’s what she’ll think about you:

“Okay, It’s pretty obvious this guy is wrapped around my finger. And, yeah, he is a nice guy and I can have him whenever, but let me see what else is out there, first…”

When you CHASE her, you end up being one of her OPTIONS. And, if she’s really attractive, she’ll probably already have plenty of options.

After spending countless hours with many attractive women, here’s what I have realised: an average woman has at least THREE guys chasing her at any given time, (which can be MUCH higher if she was to go outside and meet women actively!)

That’s why you need to be that ONE GUY in her mind so that she starts to CHASE YOU…

MISTAKE #3: Not understanding how women think

You probably already understand that men and women are two ENTIRELY different creatures…

And, a man and woman can have completely different impressions of the exact same situation.

Let me illustrate my point with an example:

A couple of years ago, I got stuck in an elevator with my girlfriend. Once we got out, I realized that we’re both focusing on entirely different things. I was focused on the ‘logical’ things, like how to get the doors open, and how to get her attention, etc…

… while she was totally immersed in the different emotions of the experience! For example, she was experiencing the fear and the excitement, while also building an emotional bonding with me.

Here’s what I want to say: We men are dominated by LOGIC and reasonings, while a woman’s mind is directed and dominated by EMOTION.

And, what’s so interesting is that what she is THINKING and FEELING do not make any sense to HER.

That is the reason why most women are looking for a man who TRULY understands her on a much deeper level, which is really valuable and rare to her…

… just like having a FOOTBALL COACH is extremely valuable to a FOOTBALL PLAYER.

And even though Day Game Made Sexy was initially created to help you build the skills to approach, connect, and seduce any girls in the streets, it also comes with a STAGGERING side effect…

You’re going to UNDERSTAND HER EVEN BETTER THAN SHE KNOWS HERSELF…

Okay, moving on.

MISTAKE #4: Being overly ‘nice’ to her

When I was struggling with women in the past, one thought always confused me:

How come a woman say they like nice guys who treat them right but always end up with abusive jerks and loser?

I never understood this… until one fine day when I was out at a party with my girlfriend with her friends.

After a couple of drinks, her friends started to complain her about all the jerks they’re dating, and how they simply wanted a NICE GUY…

I asked my girlfriend about it, and here’s what she told me, later:

“Oh yeah, but that’s just what we say. It makes us look nice and sweet to want a nice guy as a boyfriend… but deep down inside us, we don’t FEEL anything for these chumps. So most of us end up dating a jerk, instead.”

But here’s the good news: You don’t have to be a ‘jerk’ or a loser to attract her…

MISTAKE #5: Making too many excuses for yourself (too short, too bald, too broke, too old, etc…)

I realize recently that most guys who visit this site, often say things like:

“If only I was taller meeting a woman would be much easier. If only I lost 30 pounds meeting women would be easier. Once I starting making more money, then I’ll start meeting women…”

I totally understand your problem, because I used to be that guy, too. I used to make A LOT of excuses (Asian, short, broke, homeless, poor sense of style, skinny, ugly, etc.) to make me feel better about getting rejected, and not getting the kind of girl I truly desired.

I thought it was not me actually, but something outside of me — external force — that I really didn’t have any control over…

But, if you look at all those guys who did original research, they’re all old scientists and college professors…

Old, nerdy, and totally out of shape guys. Most of these guys didn’t even have hair to speak of, and one of them was even in a wheelchair…

These guys wanted to date all the hot chicks in their college. They built up Day Game Made Sexy to be the great equalizer… something that could give them an unfair advantage over the tall, good-looking, and muscular boys whose parents were paying everything for them.

Look, every guy on this planet has SOME disadvantage, but at the end of the day, the guy who ends up with that HOT chick is the one who takes MASSIVE ACTION with the ladies… without making any excuses for himself and his desires.

MISTAKE #6: Trying to impress a woman

We men work hard and we want to be respected for that. I totally get it…

We’re MEN, and that’s how we operate.

We work hard, get a promotion, and make more money, and buy us nice things, and we want other people to know about it.

NOTHING’s wrong about it. We men are entitled to get a fair share of recognition…

But, remember this: Never try to impress a woman you’re trying to attract…

Why?

Here’s why: If you’re trying to impress a woman, she’ll view it as HUGE insecurity in your part.

So don’t do it.

Women can smell it from a million miles away because they have “sixth” sense to detect male insecurities.

MISTAKE #7: Not asking for help

As men, we don’t want to look weak or helpful. Most guys do not even stop and ask for a direction when they’re lost.

Most guys have a huge ego and they want to “figure everything all by themselves”…

In the past, I used to hang around with friends who were naturals, but I never considered asking for their help.

When I was on a date with a beautiful girl, I would give her a lot of compliments, buy her flowers, write poems and sing songs just to make her happy.

My friend, Fred, who was really good with women, wanted to offer me some advice, but I told him no, it’s okay and “I got this.”

With the next hot chick, I would immediately change my plans for her. I would agree with everything she would say. I would listen to her stories about how she was mistreated by a lot of jerks in the past.

At the end of the date, I would only get a friendly hug, and nothing else – kiss, or ex. Next week, they would never return my calls.

If there’s one thing I learned from my past failures with women, here’s this: You do not get better by making the same mistakes over and over again. You do not get better by getting rejected over and over.

Most guys never seek out help from guys who are successful with women, and hence, they never really improve. They only end up being more fearful, anxious, and nervous as they become older.

Now, I am at the point where I know what really turns a woman on… I have no problem meeting women when I’m out in the street.

I know how to get their numbers. I know where to take them on dates, and currently, I am seeing at least 2 to 3 new girls every week.

By this, my quality of life has improved dramatically. I no longer experience that dreaded approach/social anxiety. I know how to weed out uninterested women, and go for the ones that are highly interested in ME.

All of that was possible thanks to Daytime Pickup: From The Cafes, Malls & Streets… To The ‘Bedroom’ (The Natural Progression). It has helped over 100s of guys and I’m sure it can help you too.

It’s the first program that shows you how to display your identity, build strong emotional connection, and how to escalate to sex… so that women will start to chase YOU. And when a woman makes the first move, it’s practically impossible to get rejected.

Go out and make it happen.

Aby

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