When it comes to dating and relationship, women still go for a guy who is hell bent on being mystery, challenge, and exciting. So going in slow, though it may seem counter-intuitive, can actually help you become a desirable man in highly interested women’s mind!
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In dating, a lot of factors goes into to make you an attractive guy — looking good (grooming yourself), being sure of yourself and confident, and of course, your personality.
And there’s one key element you must include in our dating life: your telephone skills. Today, I’m going to tell you how long should you wait to ask a girl out once you get her number.
If you only practice this skill, soon you’ll start to get even more dates.
I bet you’ve probably heard about the 3 day rule dating. The rule states that once you get her phone number, you should wait at least 3 days to make your move. But, here’s my advice to you: 3 day is rushing in. Almost every guy is doing this. Wait for 5 to 7 days, if you can, because it trains your brain to slow down in the dating world.
Here are few reasons why it’s very important to wait for 5 to 7 days before asking a girl out or texting a girl.
1. Avoid a lot of “rookie” dating mistakes
By rushing in — calling her within 2 to 3 days — you run the risk of making a lot of rookie dating mistake. You appear needy and desperate, and don’t seem to have a life besides girls. But if you wait, you’ll automatically stop being desperate and needy.
2. Enough time to prepare for the date
Waiting for 5 to 7 days can also give you enough time to prepare for a memorable date with her — playing a game of pool together at Mike’s bar and visiting the Y club to dance after — to make it memorable, fun, and exciting, which’ll she’ll be raving about with her friends during the whole week.
What does a lot of guys do? A lot of guys take girls out on a boring — predictable — movie or coffee date.
Well, here’s you chance to be different. Wait, prepare, and take her on an emotional (positive) rollercoaster ride.
3. Keep her guessing.
By going in slow, you make her wonder about you. You immediately stick out like a sore thumb from all the pack of guys who call her within two days.
Here’s an incredible story: Last week, as I was sipping Virgin Mojito with one of my close friends, Fred in a bar in the Rue De Rivoli street in Paris, and he told me an incredible story about how he met his wife.
Now his wife, Ann, is an incredibly beautiful woman — the kind of woman gracing the covers of the Vogue magazine. And so as you can imagine, guys of all shapes and sizes would hit on her as soon as she turned 14. When Fred asked for her number that day, she told him later that nine other guys has asked for her number too.
But, out of these ten new folks, only one guy had waited and called her after 7 days. She was mad at first, but she told Fred that she’d dumped all the other nine guys from her phone and went out on a date with him a week later. And to my chagrin, after a year of their relationship, she married my friend, Fred.
So why did Ann chose Fred over other nine losers? Now you may be wondering, “Why did Ann decide to marry Fren while she threw out all other nine guys out of her life like a rag doll?”
The answer is pretty surprizing: Ann felt that Fred was remote and distant. He was not that eager to meet her. And, guess what guys? Women want a man who doesn’t want them. In her mind, Fred seemed he was unsure of her, which never happened to her before. No guys had ever done that to her, and hence, she found to be mysterious — aka CHALLENGE.
4. It weeds out “uninterested” women.
If you wait for 5 to 7 days, a lot of girls will drop out, but you should have a big smile 😀 on your face.
What? A big smile if I lose a girl? you might be thinking.
Well, what I meant was you lose a lot of uninterested women. If the girl likes you already, she’ll won’t forget about you, she’ll wait; others — users, uglies, feministas, and tomboys — will simply get lose their patience with you and move on, but you still WIN.
And now before you wait for 5 to 7 days before asking her out, you must understand this: This dating wisdom will only work if she has a high interest in you; otherwise, it won’t work. So if you do this on an interested girl, her attraction towards you literally goes through the roof.
When it comes to love and relationship, women still thrive on challenge. So give them what they want: challenge.
When you think you’re a gift — a prize to be won, someone who is busy with plenty and plenty of women — you stop putting women on a pedestal. You focus on her pleasing, and winning you instead.
Being mysterious, challenge, and social skills are still attractive masculine characteristics that drive hordes of women into a real man’s life. So think, and believe you’re a great catch – busy with plenty of women — and wait for 5 to 7 days before asking her out on a date, and I won’t be surprized if you land a hottie who is madly in love with you.
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