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Almost everyone reading this article (and who slept with a girl) has had the misfortune of coming a little bit too early. It’s embarrassing and frustrating, I know. And it definitely doesn’t boost your chances of putting your willie back in the girl again, but here are 5 tips to prevent that from happening.
1. Get out of the zone.
The most effective way to last longer on the bed is to delay orgasm. And to do that, you need to distract your mind out of the moment and focus on something completely non-sexual, like thinking about a project you’re working on, doing your laundry, or about a song. All of these distractions can work wonders to make you last longer in bed, but it also has its downsides because it takes you out of the moment.
As much as you want to look down at her going yourself in and out, it will help you last longer in bed if you only close your eyes for a couple of minutes and take your mind somewhere else.
2. Pull out and switch to some foreplay.
If you feel that an orgasm is building quickly, then pull out for a couple of minutes and switch to some foreplay. You’ll find the will not complain that you suddenly had the desire to eat her out. Use this time to let your genitals calm down a little bit as the blood rushes away from the head. Take time out for a couple of minutes and relax, and when you absolutely feel it’s safe to go back, then go back to work.
3. Take long slow breaths.
Use breathing patterns to delay ejaculation. If you’re feeling yourself getting turned on too early, make sure to take slow and long breaths. The slow and long breaths will help you calm down and the urge to ejaculate will pass.
4. Switch positions.
Switch positions to the one that you’re less likely to climax with. For me, I know that I cannot ejaculate when I’m doing doggy style. Find out what position you tend to have trouble ejaculating with and quickly switch to that position whenever you have an urge to finish too early.
5. Squeeze the top of the penis.
If you feel that you’re about to ejaculate too early either you or your partner can squeeze the glands at the top of the penis to delay ejaculation. Firmly squeeze it until the temptation to orgasm passes. Warning: don’t wait too long to make the squeeze or you’ll end up splurging in your hand.
With these tips, I hope you’ll not ejaculate prematurely. Remember, you only get one chance to make a lasting impression.
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