Home Blog

3 Simple, Yet Proven “Innocent” Touches That AROUSE A Girl, Sexually (WITHIN MINUTES!)

0

After a long time learning the chops of Day Game — meeting and dating girl on the streets during the day — I finally discovered one secret: it’s completely fine to touch girls on first meeting.

I still remember that day, when I was at a local bar, hanging out with my friends and talking to this young HOT blonde. Just a couple of minutes after talking with her, a little voice in my head started to say some cool stuff…  for a change, I guess.

It was goading me to “touch her”, instead of telling me NOT to.

So, that’s what I did…

I hurled my arm over her shoulder and squeeze her just a little bit (in a playful way, of course) and said the first thing that came to my mind, something like “you’re adorable.” And the rest is history…

So in today’s article, I’m going to share you 3 simple and easy ways you can touch a girl today and show to her that you’re a CONFIDENT and SEXUAL man, and take your interaction to more “intimate level” (sexual level)… WITHIN MINUTES on your first meeting.

Are you ready?

Okay, so here you go.

3 simple yet insanely effective way to touch a woman on your first meeting… and make her fantasize about you in a sexual way, quick:

1. Touch her hand(s)

Now I have to admit I have skipped this crucial step of physical escalation many times with girls, especially when I learning to meet women during the day on the streets. But now, I know what I’m doing, and hence, I don’t really take these baby steps like I used to.

But, on the other hand, if it’s your first date situation or you’re a little older than her or you’re learning how to escalate a girl physically… then I personally believe “touching her hand” is the best way to bring an element of sexuality into your interaction… WITHOUT coming across as a “creep.”

There are 3 simple ways you can touch her hands:

You can…

  1. Grab her hand and hold it (or if you want to make her feel more sensual, you can lay one of your hands on top of hers and lock your fingers with hers.)
  2. Or, if she has a small hands, you can tell that her hands are small by saying something like, “Lol, you’ve got small hands there!” Then you can compare your hands with hers, and start touching them, etc… (Note: if her hands are large, SKIP this step!)
  3. Or, you can ask her, “Hey, let me give you a hand massage,” or “let’s play the hand slap game,” or “let’s play thumb wrestling”

2. Touch her hair

This escalation method works like a charm!

You may probably have heard from your grandmother that “if a woman lets you touch her hair that means she is READY to kiss you.” Now, I haven’t tested this theory to get a definite “Yes” answer, but l can say something with 100% certainty: every girl who let me touch her hair HAS let me give her a smooch on her lips.

And guess what? I have NEVER met a girl who told me not to touch her hair.

Got your attention? Sure I did. 🙂

So what this means is that IF you skip this crucial step, you’re bound to get her cheek… instead of her lips.

And while doing this, make sure to throw in a witty line, something like,” Wow, your hair is smooth and shiny…” or if you want to be more playful, can tell her “God, I could look after your hair all day, it’s so soft…”

3. Touch her waist

This move is SO darn effective that I only use it on the girl who has given me all possible “green” signs to go ahead, like locking her eyes with mine while standing only few centimeters from me.

And touching her waist is quite easy. You only have to place your hands on her side and curl your fingers around her back so that you can easily grab her and pull her towards you. If you’re able to touch her like this, it’s sends a subtle message to her that says you’re the type of guy who is confident and not afraid/shy of escalating on a beautiful INTERESTED girl like her… and that you’re capable of making it happen again.

Note: while you’re doing this to her, make sure to talk in a LOW voice so that she has to lean closer to hear you speak. Works like a charm in a busy and noisy club. Just pull her near you and whisper right into her ear while grabbing her waist with your hands… and then she’ll immediately KNOW things are about to get exciting from here.

Stay chill!

Abishek

P.S. For more ways to touch a girl you just met and bring her back to your aparment…  check out this AMAZING resource.

7 Simple Ways To Get A HOT Girlfriend (Even If You’re Not Cool, Hot, or Rich)

0

Do you wanna know the ‘secret’ why most ugly guys often wind up with the HOTTEST women?

All of these not so good looking guys who often end up swopping all those HOT and SEXY women you see, are really successful at it because of ONE simple reason: their presentation skills.

I’ve noticed as a daytime pickup coach that most “good-looking guys” often become tense, nervous, or afraid to approach HOT women simply because they feel she’s out of their league…

… but here’s good news, dude: she doesn’t care about YOUR LOOKS! Absolutely not!

This means you do not have to be…

  • cool
  • fancy
  • rich
  • or drive fast cars…

… to make HOT women your girlfriend!

In today’s post, I’m going to share you my 7 simple (yet highly effective) tips to attract all those 10s into your life…

even if you are not good-looking, rich, or cool…

… and make them go SO obsessed over you that they’ll literally be begging you to date them from every direction 🙂

Here are 7 simple ways you can get a 10 to be your girlfriend:

1. Start dating other women

Let me explain to you something…

Have you ever notice why when you’re not seeing anyone, no women find you attractive. But, as soon as they spot you walking with an eye candy, all of a sudden, you become 10 times handsome, cool, and sexy than before?

Well, this happens almost ALL the time.

Why? What’s going on here?

Here’s what’s happening: you see, when you are taken, all starts to gravitate towards you simply because they view you in a ROMANTIC LIGHT.

When you’re already taken, it makes other girls curious about you, and they want to know what else is going on with you. They want to figure out what makes you so darn attractive… what attractive qualities you possess… and HOW did you land that piece of hot booty.

It’s incredibly EXCITING to most women…

You see, women often size-up each other and try to be the HOTTEST and the SEXIEST one in a group when they head out of their house. It’s just in-built in their nature.

And this is the same in the dating world too…

Once a girl spots you busy with other women (doesn’t matter if they’re AVERAGE women or HOT chicks), she instinctively starts to wonder WHY she didn’t catch YOU in the FIRST place… and hence, her INTEREST in you skyrockets almost overnight!

What should you do to attract HOT women into your life, quickly?

Start going out and meeting (and dating) plenty of AVERAGE looking women (even if you don’t like them).

This will work for you in three ways:

  • It’ll keep you busy…
  • Make you seem UNAVAILABLE…. and hence, mysterious and a challenge…
  • And eventually, force other HOT women to come to you. 🙂

2. Be mysterious

Every woman WANT a man who’s a bit challenge and mystery to them.

It makes them WONDER about YOU and want to find more.

So when you meet a girl for the first time, on the street or anywhere else, refrain from telling your entire life’s story to her… especially all the juicy details.

Why?

Because if you tell her everything to her too fast, you stop being mysterious to her. And guess what? Women LOVE surprises.

You may be tempted to confess all of your ‘secrets’ and all of your life’s success stories to impress her, especially when you sense there’s a good “vibe” between the two of you…

But showing your “hand” on the table way too son… can work against YOU!

If you tell her too much about you too soon… she might lose her initial interest into you.

Telling her too much about yourself up front gives her the opportunity to run into conclusions…

What should you do to be mysterious around hot women?

Share only a little bit about yourself and hold back a lot of information here and there. Only give vague information. She’ll be more impressed by you when she finally learns about all your brownie points on her own 🙂

3. Have a goal.

Not just about getting HOT women, but other things in life too. This is very important because women WANT to be with a wan who has GOALS, dreams, and aspirations in life, someone who knows exactly what he wants and isn’t afraid/lazy to go out and get it.

This trait turns ON most beautiful women. It SHOWS her that you’re confident, intelligent, talented, and enthusiastic about your life, not someone who spends most of his time playing video games and watching TV shows.

And if she’s a great woman like most HOT women are, she’s going to WANT a man who’ll keep her “balance”… you know, someone who can help establish her life’s goals and achieve them too.

And when you finally ask her out on a date, make sure to have a “plan” for the date just to show that you care enough about her to follow through with all the last minute details.

WARNING: DO NOT be that guy who asks her “whatever you say” or “where shall we go?” on the date…. instead, take charge and make a decision based on what she tells you!

And when making a plan for the date, make sure to put some thought into it. And once you’ve found out what it is, tell her EXACTLY where you will take her, and what time you’ll pick her up.

Well, this might seem like you’re controlling her, but trust me it’s not. In fact, it’s the opposite: you’re being ASSERTIVE and taking charge of the situation… all those qualities that most HOT women go absolutely bananas for!

4. Don’t be so “easy”

Just think about it: how good would it feel to you when you’ve been working your butt off trying to save up all that money for that new home you’ve been eyeing for so long, and on top of that…

You buy it with no one’s help. Not with a bank loan.

You would cherish it a lot more, wouldn’t you? After all, it’s all yours now finally and you worked really really hard to achieve it!

You earned it!

But, on the other hand, when things come TOO EASY for us, we tend to value it LESS, which is equally true when it comes to dating that HOT chick too.

If you are available to her all the time, she’ll start to EXPECT it… she’ll know for sure you’ll be there when she calls you, and soon, her interest in your will drop like.

Or even worse… she’ll start to USE you 🙁

So what should you do to be a challenge?

Keep her guessing.

You see, women LOVE THE GAME as much as we men do.

How many times you’ve been into a girl and then you quickly lost interest in her simply because she gave herself up too easily? It’s because the CHASE is gone.

And guess what? Hot chicks sense the same too.

Always be UNPREDICTABLE.

This means you do not cancel a night out with your pals just to get a date with her. You can always reschedule a planned date!

Besides, it shows her that you’re LOYAL to your friends and you keep your word.

Here’s the thing: the MORE a woman has to put effort to be with you… the more she WANTS to be with you.

5. Just do it, dude!

The moment you spot a hot chick across a room, do not even WAIT. Make your move, right there and then.

Remember: HOT women have guys approaching them all day every day… and if you can’t even summon up the courage to approach her, exchange a few words, and grab her number…

Guess what happens next? Yeah, she’ll quickly move to the next guy who will.

Grow a pair and APPROACH her.

To her, you’re just like any other guy in that room and you don’t matter (yet)…

… so APPROACH her and work on your CHARM to show her that you’re a kind of guy who is not afraid of getting rejected.

But, on the other hand, if she senses you’re sort of hesitant to even say “Hi” to her, she’ll quickly think you don’t like her enough or that you’re too shy or afraid, and immediately lose her interest in you.

So the next time if you spot a beautiful woman and want to know her better… simply go and APPROACH HER! Just do it!

6. “Mix” It Up

It’s easy to mess up with a HOT chick. But, one of the quickest and surest ways to turn a hot chick off is by being totally PREDICTABLE.

Women LOVE excitement and anticipation that only comes when you leave them guessing.

It will “spark” her ATTENTION and keep her on her TOES… because she’ll never KNOW what you’re doing to do next.

Do NOT be afraid to “mix” things up a bit now and then. It’s fine to CHANGE your plans and do something completely UNEXPECTED.

For example, if you only take her out for a dinner, your woman will get turned off pretty quickly. Instead SURPRISE her by taking her on a mini-adventure, like a bowling date, a haunted house date, or a 5O-mile bike ride in the woods near your city.

Or…

Instead of taking her on a “normal evening walk,” take her to a SALSA dance class for a night.

I can GUARANTEE if you do unexpected ADVENTURES and KEEP HER GUESSING once in a while, you’ll NEVER have a problem keeping her around and keeping her really, really happy 🙂

7. “Kill” that desperation.

So you haven’t been with a lot of hot chicks in the past? So what. ACT like it anyway!

Remember: you do NOT want to come across as a total “newbie” in the game.

Once you’ve made an INCREDIBLE CONNECTION with a hot woman and been out with her on the first date, do NOT start calling or sending her texts every day.

If you do that, you’ll LOSE her even before you realize it. 🙁

Why?

Because women WANT and ENJOY their “space”… so make sure to GIVE that to her.

When she calls you, or texts you, make her WAIT for your response. DO NOT answer her calls/texts right away. Just leave her a cute message and call her back in 30 minutes 🙂

As long as you call her back, you’re doing really fine!

When you’re dating a HOT woman, it can be pretty difficult not to spend more time with her all the time… I understand, I’ve been guilty of that problem too in the past, BUT you never want to make this desire too obvious.

If you do that, she’ll think you have NOTHING going on in your life — no other interests, hobbies, passions, friends… and you’re too LOVESICK…

All these things are a HUGE turn off for most attractive women!

Also, do NOT try to CONTROL her when she wants to spend some time with her girlfriends or when she isn’t available over the weekend. Dude, give her some space… and she’ll come back to you, with both arms wide open.

Remember: respecting each other’s needs and space not only makes the bond stronger… it also makes you STAND OUT from other “clingy” and “needy” guys she ditched in the past…

She KNOWS you’re the kind of man who loves his own thing to be HAPPY 🙂

Now, I know these tips will help you get even MORE HOT women in the future… if you’re single…

Or if you already have a sweetheart, you can use these simple yet powerfully effective lifehacks to “spark” some EXCITEMENT and ADVENTURE back into your relationship!

Or even get your EX back.

So let me know in the comment box below how YOU are going to use this insider information to your get GAME back to the “next level” (because that way I’ll know what kind of tips to give you later)…

Stay chill!

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you want to OVERCOME your social anxiety, shyness, or any self-limiting beliefs that are stopping you from meeting and dating HOT women… and learn how to MEET, CAPTIVATE, CONNECT, and SEDUCE (and DATE) ATTRACTIVE women… on the streets, cafes, malls, or ANYWHERE else under the sun… and take your love life to the “next level,” QUICK… then…

… DISCOVER these ‘secrets’.

The #1 Secret To Displaying Your “Sexual Vibe” To A Girl … And Make Her Your Girlfriend (QUICK)!

0

Don’t know how to create a “sexual vibe” when talking to a girl? In this post, I’ll unleash you the secret of displaying your male sexuality with a girl, WITHIN MINUTES!

I used the capital letters for a reason.

Most guys falsely think that they should “first, I am going to convince her how nice I am, how interesting I am, and how funny I am…”

“… and ONLY after that, I’ll spark sexual tension.”

If you’re doing this, you’re doing it WRONG!

Why?

Well, here’s why: when a random girl you meet on the streets or anywhere else, she puts you immediately in any one of these four categories:

Category #1: “Creep”

She’s not interested in you. She wants nothing to do with you. She wants to run away from you, asap.

Category #2: “Potential friend”

She thinks you’re nice and friendly. She doesn’t mind talking with you.

Category #3: “Potential boyfriend”

She thinks you could be her boyfriend.

Category #4: “Potential Lover”

She gets horny when she thinks about you. She imagines having sex with you. She thinks, “I don’t know why I am having this weird desire for this guy so soon?”

And do you want to know WHY most guys, including you, mess up?

Here’s why: You try to establish yourself as a “boyfriend material.”

Makes sense, right?

Right.

You think by displaying her all your awesome qualities to her you can get her to think “oh he could be an awesome boyfriend.”

– Oh, we both like travelling. Cool.
– Oh, he loves music too.
– Oh, we have a similar sense of humour.
– Oh, he has a great job.

Nothing’s wrong doing that, right?

WRONG!

There’s a BIG flaw in that way of thinking.

Why?

Because none of that tactic makes her want to go back to your apartment for sex.

And, here’s a secret no other dating guru will tell you: a girl will ONLY make YOU her boyfriend… IF SHE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU FIRST.

(I’m sorry to reveal that to you, but there’s no other way around that.)

And, remember: if she doesn’t want to sleep with you, then you’ll immediately get thrown in the dreaded “friend” category.

And for this SIMPLE REASON millions of guys continually get put in the dreaded “friendzone.”

Because they FOCUS ON the “boyfriend zone.”

But here’s the catch…

When a girl has dirty thoughts about you…

Or when she thinks secretly “It would be incredibly fun to sleep with this guy… even though I don’t view him as a potential boyfriend material…”

THAT guy often winds up dating her. Yeah, you heard that right. The same guy she was only thinking about sleeping with.

So here’s the key lesson you should grab from this post:

FIRST potential lover…

SECOND, potential boyfriend.

And guess what? There are certain proven techniques to “steer” normal and nice small talks with a girl into the more powerful “potential lover” zone…

… and the sooner you can do this, the BETTER.

What’s the best way to do this?

Luckily for you, here’s an amazing new guide that guides you through in just 3 simple steps.

But here’s the catch: these 3 simple steps MUST be followed (and let me repeat that for added emphasis)…

YOU MUST FOLLOW THESE 3 SIMPLE STEPS in the same exact order.

If you do it wrong, the girl you’re talking to will immediately place you in the dreaded “friendzone.”

But, on the other hand, you follow these 3 steps in the exact same order, you’ll effortlessly LEAD things towards hot and passionate sex.

==> Check out this 33-page manual guiding you through each step.

Stay chill!

Abishek

P.S. Most guys often TRY FOR the potential boyfriend route, and hence, they do not close the deal soon enough, and even before they realize it, they’re already in the dreaded “friendzone.”

Instead, your number goal MUST be to TRY FOR the potential lover route right off the bat. And in this amazing guide, I’m going to show you exactly how to do this… step-by-step.

7 Behaviours That Is Secretly Destroying Your GAME!

0

If you are struggling to get the girls you really want … (not the girls stubborn  slightly pudgy girl most guys make their girlfriend)… then you need to understand something REALLY important.

Here is it…

If you focus on weeding out your “negative” behaviours and mindsets… then becoming more attractive becomes way easier than you’ve thought.

Let that sink in your subconscious mind because it is a game changer.

That’s right. The best part is that just by weeding out some of your “unattractive” behaviours is enough to put you a million miles ahead of your competition.

What do I mean by this exactly, you might be wondering?

Well, here’s what I mean…

Back in college days, I remember I was very shy, and a bit awkward socially too.

In fact, I would get stuck into my own head that I couldn’t talk to people. And, I’d second guess everything I was going to say, so as a result, I just sat there keeping my mouth shut the whole time.

Girls would always ask “hey, what’s up with you?” … or “are you even okay?”

And when I finally talk, I had billions of thoughts floating around my head about what I was going to say so much that when it finally came out it appeared as forced and awkward.

In fact, the more I tried to become interesting, cool, and funny… the more awkward and lame I appeared.

Then finally one day, one of my close dudes gave me a piece of advice I had probably heard a million times before but for whatever reason that day it finally sunk in…

“Do NOT over think it. Just talk.”

And from then, I slowly stopped over thinking what I was going to say next and just said the first thing that popped in my mind…

And only a few months later… I met my first girlfriend. (Now, full disclosure, she was that stubborn chubby girl I mentioned just earlier.)

But I have to be honest, I learned a valuable lesson with that experience.

Sometimes it’s not a matter of addition… it’s a matter of subtraction.

(In many ways the whole Daytime Pickup Secrets: The Natural Progression is all about subtracting out all the behaviour she expects…)

What all these means is… it is not about becoming funnier, better looking, or learning how to deliver powerful pickup lines or techniques on women…

… but, sometimes, it’s just about figuring out one or two behaviours that are making you appear “unattractive.”

The key word here is “appear.”

When I sat there in the corner with my mouth SHUT I “appeared” unattractive and awkward.

But when I started to open up and talk more and more I immediately “appeared” like a normal college guy.

Here are 7 behaviours that make you “appear” unattractive:

1. Being “Needy”

What is a needy behaviour? A needy behaviour is when you need a constant reassurance that she likes you when you’re out with a girl.

Asking questions like, “Is everything all right? or “Are you have a great time?” or if she’s your girlfriend and you constantly keep on telling her “I love you” just because you want to hear her say it back to you.

Kill that neediness because you’re acting like you’re not certain if she should like you…. and guess what happens next? She starts to second-guess herself.

2. Being “Clingy”

Clingy behaviour such as doing things like stalking a girl at a party, calling her too much, making plans with her, not giving her space, or just being “around” too much.

When you act “clingy” girls see you as unattractive because they assume you have no other options.

3. Being “Too Nice”

Yes, I struggled with this for years. It feels so good to want to help her, do things for her, act like a gentleman, compliment her, or be the perfect listener.

But, this type of behaviour often sparks a “friend” vibe that damages any chances of you creating a sexual attraction in her.

4. Being “Creepy”

Here are certain types of behaviour that comes across as “creepy” to girls.

– Asking her too many personal questions too soon
– Staring at her for too long even before starting a conversation
– Knowing a lot of things about her even before you meet her (she feels like you just stalked her on Facebook).
– Making sexual references even before establishing trust, comfort, and familiarity.

Creepiness is a huge turn off for girls because it makes them feel that they’ll be forced into doing something they don’t want to or they’ll be taken advantage of. Not the kind of “vibe” you want to project on the girl you’re into.

5. Being “unfunny”

What does it mean when I say being “unfunny.”

When you try to come across as a “try hard” or when you don’t realize your jokes aren’t making anyone laugh, that’s when you’re being “unfunny.” And guess what? Girls can pick that immediately.

This is a huge turn off for many girls because it makes you “socially unintelligent” man. She starts to think that you’re not used to hanging around with fun and cool people.

6. Being “scared.”

I admit. I used to suffer from this issue for a very, very long time. I was too afraid to approach her, too scared to talk to her, too scared to ask her out, too afraid to invite her back to my place, too scared to go in for the kiss, or even undress her…

If you are being “scared” to do any of these things… the girl’s attraction will plummet asap because it makes you appear as unconfident and inexperienced guy.

Here’s the good news: if you’re not “too scared” to any of these things, it’ll only have a completely opposite effect. It makes you confident, attractive and experienced.

7. Dressing poorly.

I am not into fashion, but I’m clever enough to realize what is stylish and what is not. It surprises me to see so many guys who do not want to put any effort into wearing anything fashionable.

But if you just put a little bit of time, thought and money into what you’re wearing, you’ll dramatically improve your success rate with women. Yes, girls notice what you’re wearing… especially your shoes.

So don’t beat around the bush. Be honest with yourself. Which negative behaviour from this list would you like to work on improving?

For most of my life, I was guilty of almost all of these behaviours. Yes, I had been that “creepy” guy too.

But the most important thing is to realize your mistakes and be honest with yourself and work on eliminating them… once and for all.

Here’s a quick fact that’ll explode your mind:

Besides your physical appearance, which is only a small part…. being free of these seven sins is what makes you more attractive in women’s eyes.

If you just focus on not doing any of these seven things, you’ll notice a lot of women checking out you, talking to you, and even giving you their number, because you seem VERY VERY  attractive to them.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you’d like to learn how to make small talk with women, and flirt with them, properly, and build enough sexual tension to take things to much more “intimate level”… then grab a free copy of my Simple Small Talk System Report. (Grab it while it is still available for free)!

What Do YOU Talk About When You’re On A Date?

0

Hey there! What’s up?

Getting the conversation going on a first date isn’t that difficult as you might imagine it to be. To be honest, if you got a girl’s number and asked her out, and she said “yes”… then give a big pat on your shoulder because you already know enough about her to keep the conversation going at least throughout the your first date.

Small talk helps. Talking about each other’s interests, hobbies, ambitions, comforts, joys, frustrations, and aspirations are the best ways to diffusing the awkward tension between the two of you and make date more fun and memorable. (By the way, if you’re interested, here are 35 good topics to talk about on a first date.)

You can also talk about your past dates, weather, and other odds and ends on your first date. Other good topics for conversations could be talking about each other’s favourite books, music, films, TV programs, and cultural things.

Remember: If you can keep her engaged by the time the main course arrives, then you’re doing really good.

Talking about these small talk topics listed above will give her some sense of who you are as a person (your identity/personality), and more importantly, help you both settle down and into the date.

And, if the situation demands, you must also be ready to move into “serious topics,” such as politics and religion.

What if you’re deeply interested in politics? What if you’re a hard-core religious? How do you handle your first date?

Given the current situation of the country, it is almost impossible to avoid talking about politics, especially if you’re passionate about the topic. But if you think that talking about politics has nothing to do with your dating life, you’ll be hugely mistaken.

If you truly care about the girl you’re on a date with, you must make it known, right from the beginning, what your politics are, and try to understand hers too. It’s NOT to say that “political opposites” can’t date each other; the important thing is that each person should make it known where they stand before things go any further. And it’s always a good idea to make it known now, rather than later and risk facing “drama” and “embarrassment” in the future.

The same thing goes for religion. If you’re a believer, then you should at least find some way to let her know about it. You don’t want to date a girl, end up falling in love with her, and later discover that she’s a non-believer.

Many people think that these “serious topics” can wait until later; that such “sensitive topics” should not even be brought up on the first date. Well, that’s only ‘true’ if you do not care much about the girls.

But what if you’re passionate about your religion/non-religion and politics?

If you truly care about the girl you’re on a date with, then you should at least try to make it known to her on the first date. Now, you do NOT have to browbeat the girl with propositions and arguments. Bringing up the topics in a natural and “mild way” will be enough.

Other topics such as hobbies, including adventure and outdoor sports, also make for good topics for conversation. These days, more and more people are taking rock climbing, skating, and canoeing as pastimes. Arts, crafts, wine tasting, and cooking also are great topics of conversations among young urban individuals. And, if you’re engaged in a particular hobby that is not well-known, do NOT hide it from talking about it with your date; it will most likely get her to talk about her own interests.

Here’s the bottom line: stay interesting and interested. That’s your number one goal on the first date.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you’d like to know know 12 insanely engaging topics to talk about on the first girl and spark attraction in women… then you can grab a free copy of my 12 Insanely Good Topics That Keeps Conversation Going Report (worth $47)… absolutely for FREE!

5 Simple Tips For Lasting Longer In Bed.

0
last longer during sex

Hey there! What’s up?

Almost everyone reading this article (and who slept with a girl) has had the misfortune of coming a little bit too early. It’s embarrassing and frustrating, I know. And it definitely doesn’t boost your chances of putting your willie back in the girl again, but here are 5 tips to prevent that from happening.

1. Get out of the zone.

The most effective way to last longer on the bed is to delay orgasm. And to do that, you need to distract your mind out of the moment and focus on something completely non-sexual, like thinking about a project you’re working on, doing your laundry, or about a song. All of these distractions can work wonders to make you last longer in bed, but it also has its downsides because it takes you out of the moment.

As much as you want to look down at her going yourself in and out, it will help you last longer in bed if you only close your eyes for a couple of minutes and take your mind somewhere else.

2. Pull out and switch to some foreplay.

If you feel that an orgasm is building quickly, then pull out for a couple of minutes and switch to some foreplay. You’ll find the will not complain that you suddenly had the desire to eat her out. Use this time to let your genitals calm down a little bit as the blood rushes away from the head. Take time out for a couple of minutes and relax, and when you absolutely feel it’s safe to go back, then go back to work.

3. Take long slow breaths.

Use breathing patterns to delay ejaculation. If you’re feeling yourself getting turned on too early, make sure to take slow and long breaths. The slow and long breaths will help you calm down and the urge to ejaculate will pass.

4. Switch positions.

Switch positions to the one that you’re less likely to climax with. For me, I know that I cannot ejaculate when I’m doing doggy style. Find out what position you tend to have trouble ejaculating with and quickly switch to that position whenever you have an urge to finish too early.

5. Squeeze the top of the penis.

If you feel that you’re about to ejaculate too early either you or your partner can squeeze the glands at the top of the penis to delay ejaculation. Firmly squeeze it until the temptation to orgasm passes. Warning: don’t wait too long to make the squeeze or you’ll end up splurging in your hand.

With these tips, I hope you’ll not ejaculate prematurely. Remember, you only get one chance to make a lasting impression.

Stay chill

P.S. BTW, if you want to learn how to effortlessly meet, captivate, connect, and date (and even take her back to your apartment), even if you’ve been shy and afraid in the past, then here’s a kick-ass resource for you.

3 Simple Techniques To Develop A Playful “Vibe” Around Women

0
how to develop a playful vibe around women

How to ignite the right playful and flirty “vibe” around woman and make her attracted to you, almost instantly!

Hey there. What’s up?

Having a fun, playful, and engaging conversation with a girl is the first step you should master if you want to get what you want from a girl. But, unfortunately, having fun, engaging, and playful conversation is effortless for some while it’s a complete mystery for others bloke.

Some guys seem to have it all figured out: they can effortlessly walk over to any girl they’re attracted to and be able to talk to her in such a way that’ll make her laugh, giggle, and have fun.

If you’re struggling with this issue, understand that you’re not alone. I’ve been there many times before.

Back in the days, when I was not good with girls, I used to believe that some guys knew the “secret” formula to have a great time with any girls they like, while I thought I was totally clueless about what that “secret” was.

When I was in my college, one time I spent almost 3 months trying to flirt with the girl, who was a perfect-looking voluptuous blonde girl and served at our college cafeteria. I’d always ask how her day was, smile every time she came up to me, and would agree to help her if she needed any help. It took me almost another month to get her name, Janette. When she knew my name after a week or so, I took it as a cue that I should get her number. And even after four more lunches together, I still had not summoned up the courage to ask her out.

That’s when this ugly guy barged in the cafeteria and sat right next to me and Janette.

As soon as he sat down beside us, he made Janette laugh out loud as she took his order. He was clearly flirting with her when she brought him his food. I thought she would not pay attention to him, but she didn’t. In fact, after she had finished serving everyone, she went back and sat down right next to this guy. By the time I was finished eating, this guy was already asking for her number. Before he left, he even went in for a kiss on the cheek, and to my chagrin, she gave it to him.

Now, of course, I literally dropped on the floor and felt like a pathetic chump after that lunch. But as soon as I went back to my apartment, I replayed back what I heard and saw that ugly guy say/do to her. I completely deconstructed everything, and tried to copy his “method” over the next year in my college with other girls.

I immediately noticed a big difference: I never found myself again in similar situation like the one with Janette and that ugly guy, because I finally figured out three key factors that almost every conversation must contain with every girl in every possible situations.

These are the exact three methods that made it super easy for that ugly-looking at the cafeteria to score with Janette.

Here are those three key secrets you need include in your conversation to develop a playful “vibe” that women find extremely attractive:

1. Be curious.

What I mean by this is that you need to be curious about her as a person, besides viewing her as a beauty contestant. You’re not going to interview her when you talk with her, you’re basically finding some simple answers to questions like:

  • What turns her on?
  • What things does she care about in life?
  • What things does she find funny?
  • How does she respond when I flirt with her?
  • How would she react to the idea of me getting physical with her?

You see, you could go on and on these types of questions. In fact, the questions you ask her to find out about her as a person is not that important. What is more important right now is having a curious mindset and then embracing it.

So, if you approach her and have a conversation with her with a genuine curiosity about her and not her looks, you’ll never have to worry about running out of things to say or ask to her.

In fact, the questions you’ll ask her will be playful, flirty, fun, and most importantly, honest.

2. Be cheeky.

You do not want to be rude to a girl, but only slightly. Being cheeky, bold, or irreverent can bring out the playful and funny side of her, and she’ll view you as someone who’s different than others, and she’ll flirt with you too.

Warning: Do not overdo it.

This type of conversation jolts her out of the mundane (boring) state of mind she often gets into when she’s talking to guys because it completely surprises her.

For example:

I was having a little chit-chat with a girl at a bar one time, and she was wearing this John Lennon glasses on (she still looked totally hot, though). Here’s what I asked her: “Do you take off your glasses or keep them on during sex.”

Now, of course, you need to see what’s going on around you, but you also might also break them off or knock them off if you get too… excited. You know what I mean? So tell me what you do? I am just dying to know about it.”

A bit of surprising and just a little bit of irreverent, but also kind of non-threatening and funny.

Here’s another way you can be cheeky with girls: Make an overstatement or obvious lie when she asks you a question. Then, once you’ve made it, wait for a few seconds before giving her the real answer.

In just a few seconds, I’m going to show you how to avoid being overly cheeky with girls (because trust me when I say this, you can get it on-so-wrong and completely blow up your chances with her.)

But, let me first talk about…

3. Bring fun.

Fun is the fuel of any conversations. If you’re having fun, then other people, including beautiful chicks, are naturally going to open up to you. They’ll be all ears and eyes as to what you’re doing and what you’re saying.

There’s also another incredible reason why having fun always works with chicks: if she’s having fun with you, she’ll stop thinking logically, and start thinking emotionally. She won’t be saying in the back of he mind, “Well, is this guy any good for me?” or “What are his weaknesses?” Instead, she’ll be thinking “this feels fun, and I just want to go along with it.”

Now, how do you bring the element of fun into the conversation, you might be thinking.

Here’s how: The easiest way to bring fun into the conversation is to make fun of yourself. Admit that you like cheesy pop music or agree that you’ve watched every episode of The Wonder Years at least five times. This keeps the interaction fun, light, and playful, and it also brings her out of the expectations that she has for other guys in general: that they’ll try to impress and brag.

Admitting these humorous things should not feel embarrassing; quite the opposite, it’ll actually make you attractive in her eyes.

Another thing I like to do with girls is to give them a fake palm reading. Not only it increases the level of fun, but it also gives you a lot of opportunities to get more playful, fun, and flirty with her, and it also gives you an opportunity to get your first innocent physical contact with her.

To sum it all

So now that you know these three secret ingredients that can really improve your interactions with women and prevent you from ever feeling out of your depth, what you need to learn next is how to put these things to work for you in a real situation.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you’d like to learn how to make small talk fun, playful, and flirtatious, and create a good vibe, almost instantly you enter into the conversation with her, then here’s a free resource to do that exactly.

9 Simple Tips To Make Her Feel Special

0
make her feel special

Hey there! What’s up?

So you want to learn how to make the woman feel special?

It’s all great being attractive, confident, and charming, but if you cannot make the woman feel special, she won’t like you.

At best, she’ll view you as a selfish guy. At worst, a worthless scumbag.

While it’s not impossible to hang around with women like this for a while, but eventually she’ll wise up and leave.

Making the woman you like feel special is quite simple. But for whatever reasons, most guys do it wrong. Many think that showering a woman with compliments, writing bad poetry, singing songs, and throwing money at her will do the trick. While I won’t say they might not help, but there are still other actions you can do to show her that you really care about her.

In this post, you’ll find nine effective tips to make any woman feel special:

1. Listen to her carefully.

There is nothing better you can do but listen to make them feel special, including the woman you like.

Most guys, almost 90%, don’t often listen to anyone they’re having a conversation with. They’re stuck in their head almost all the time, and thinking of what to say next, instead of listening to the woman they like.

So, if you display to her that you’re a great listener, and ask her great questions on what she’s just said, that’ll be enough for her to see that you care.

2. Give her thoughtful gifts

Giving expensive gifts doesn’t make the woman feel special. But taking out time to give a thoughtful gift will actually demonstrate that you remembered what she said, which’ll go a long way to make her feel special.

Anything that says to her: “I saw this in the mall and it reminded me of you” proves to her that she’s on your mind (even if she’s not with you).

3. Give her unique compliments.

If you’re dating a woman who looks like a model, you should understand that she has been told all the standard compliments (“Oh, you look gorgeous…” “Oh, you look beautiful..”) throughout her life. She’s sick of it, and so all her friends who are from the fashion industry.

Instead, tell her in detail the reason why you’re attracted to her. Make it personal, unique, and ideally, make it all about her personality.

If you haven’t got to know her very well yet, cold reads are a great tool to that:

“You seem like the kind of girl who is…” which will make her curious about what you’ll say next than “you’re so beautiful” line does.

Here are a few more examples of giving unique compliments.

4. Share in-jokes with her.

An insider joke, based on a unique experience you guys shared together, helps you to build an unspoken/unbreakable bond between the two of you.

For example, a nickname (‘Trouble’) that no-one else calls her will go a long way to make her feel special.

5. Show her your vulnerable side.

Most guys put out on a fake ultra-macho persona when meeting other people, particularly attractive women, but displaying your vulnerability is a great way to make her feel special.

When you unashamedly embrace all your weaknesses and emotions, it can actually be sexier to the woman you’re talking with. It displays to her that you value her opinion and trust her on sensitive topics.

Now, of course, you should not tell all your problems on this new woman, but sharing a couple of personal stories can help develop a strong rapport.

6. Win over her family and friends

For most women, the approval of her family and friends means everything to her. So if her friends do not like you, you’ll be having a difficult time building a strong and lasting relationship with her.

So put an effort to make important people in her life like you, which’ll show to her that you can care about her.

7. Accept all her strengths and weaknesses

Women want to be with a man who’ll love her even when she’s feeling sad and depressed and make-up free, as well as when she’s look intoxicating in a velvet chiffon dress.

If you show how much you care about her and how much you love her during both the good and the bad times, that’s a surefire sign that she’s very special to you.

8. Choosing to be with her over other people

If you’re spending time with her, and not with others (her friends and families) that’ll show to her that she’s special to you.

9. Putting in an effort to make her feel special.

Showing the woman that she is special is ultimately all about actions, and not just words.

If you’re taking actions for her — either through cooking breakfast, travelling a long way to meet her, or going with her to some boring activity — and not just talking about it, something you would never do for an average woman, that should be enough to show her that you care about her.

WARNING: Do not overdo it.

These powerful tips will effortlessly transform you from a “stranger” to a “boyfriend” material almost overnight, in her mind, at least, but do not overdo it, especially during your early initiate days of courtship.

But most clueless guys make the huge mistake of putting the woman on a pedestal when they barely even know her. That is a creepy and desperate behaviour, and not attractive to women at all. It’s the classic mistake of those chumps who often wind up in the dreaded friendzone.

To make her feel special initially, it’s way better to demonstrate the behaviours of a guy who’s really good with women. Once you’ve done this and you want to make her as your girlfriend, then use the tips listed above to prove to her that you care about her more than any other woman in your life.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you want to become a guy who’s really good with women, then here’s a kick-ass resource for you.

How to Start a Conversation With A Girl (In Grocery Stores)

1
how to talk to girls in grocery stores

Hey there! What’s up?

Do you know that most women have a fantasy of meeting their man of dreams at the grocery store? I recently heard about this, and it seems true based on the positive feedback from the ladies when I strike up a conversation with them at the grocery store.

Best grocery stores are a great place to meet women, because not only do they have great healthy food, but they also have trendy cafes and places to eat inside the store. And the best time to go there is anywhere between 4 and 6 PM, from Wednesday through Friday — particularly on Friday.

Here are a few ways to start a conversation with a girl at the grocery store:

1. Ask for her help

If you’re going to prepare a dish to ask for her advice on how to prepare, even if you know how to do it yourself. Thank her for her advice and ask her if she likes cooking herself. She’ll most likely say yes, at which point you can say, “That’s awesome. Not only you’re cute, but you also cook. Wow, you’re going to be an amazing woman haha. My name is Tom. What’s yours?”

2. Compliment, leave and return

As you walk past her, give her a quick compliment — on her style, not on her looks — while smiling and making an eyes contact. Then leave her alone and continue your shopping. Make sure to keep your eyes on the door to know if she’s still there or already left — chase her if she does.

After a couple of minutes, intentionally cross her path again. This time, look into her eyes, smile, and ask how her shopping is going. After she tells you the answer, ask her name and use any of the techniques to make small talk with her.

You see, when it comes to meeting new women in stores, the odds are in your favour because women like to meet men this way!

3. Wait for her to leave the store and chase her down

This tactic is my personal favourite and I don’t even know why. I think it is because it is romantic, just like a movie-moment, and is also ballsy. Women respect man with balls. So the next time you spot a hot chick walk out of the grocery store with shopping bags in her hand, run after her. If possible, try to meet her before she walks into the street. You obviously don’t want to approach her when she is in the parking lot — cause that looks a little creepy.

It’s okay to approach her there if you absolutely don’t have any idea, but for best results, try to catch her while she’s still in the safe area, just outside the store. Stop her and say, “I know this is totally random, but when I saw you in the store, you just took my breath away. I had to meet you before you left. You have to give me your name now since I left my purchase unattended back there!”

Even if she has a boyfriend, she’ll be totally flattered.

4. Make a funny suggestion

Observe what she’s looking at and make funny suggestions.

For example, if she’s in a clothing store, and she’s checking out some dresses, say, “No, that’s not you. That’s you,” and point at something that is clearly not her style or something that looks ridiculous. If she laughs, say, “I like your smile. What’s your name?” If she doesn’t, say, “Hey, sorry, I just wanted to check out your smile. I didn’t mean to distract you from your shopping.” If she says, “that’s FINE” and turns back around, let her go. If she smiles back but does not turn around, ask her name, and then go on from there.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. BTW, if you want to learn how to effortlessly talk to girls in the streets, cafes, malls, or anywhere else under the sun, get their numberes, and ask them out on a date, and make sure they show up, and build sexual tension and attraction to take things to the next level — take her back to your place, or even make her your girlfriend — then here’s a kick-ass resource you can try.

3 Simple Steps To Overcoming Shyness With Women

0
how to talk to a girl if you're a shy guy

Your body language may shape who you are!

So you want to learn how to overcome shyness and social anxiety, huh? If you find this article appealing, chances are that you consider youself to be “introverted.”

But what do “introverted” mean? Being “introverted” does NOT mean that you stay alone inside your room all day and read books. According to the dictionary, being “introverted” only means that you’re the kind of preson who is occupied with his/her own thoughts and feelings rather than with external things.”

In short, you’re “in your head” a lot. You tend to analyze situation more than usual — especially socially. Your idea of “recharging your batteries” means being away from others.

On the other hand, “extroverts” are different. They gain energy from being around with others, and the idea of being alone just sound tiring and boring. Does that make sense to you?

Well, let me reveal you the truth that I am certain nobody has ever really told you before: Introversion and extroversion are the results of how you view yourself — your self-image. They are just labels created to classify you as being one thing, and not another.

Here’s the good news: almost everyone has both introverted and extroverted qualities in themselves. Every person have the capability to be shy in one particular situation, and social and outgoing in another.

You can think of these as different muscles. The more you go out and socialize with people, the more social you become. On the other hand, the less you socialize, the less social you become. It’s that simple.

For you to change — be more social and outgoing from being shy and introverted — you need to go out and practice. With this information at hand, I want you to understand that the problem isn’t that you’re “introverted” or “shy.” The problem is that you have social anxiety and you don’t know how to get handle over it.

So, in this post, I’m going to reveal to you 3 useful exercises that you can start using right away into your interactions with people — including women.

Here’s the best thing about these exercises: you do NOT have to change your personality (who you are), just being able to control your emotions under pressure. That’s all. And these three practical social anxiety exercises will help you be into an incredible positive emotional state, whenever you want, and wherever you are.

Emotions are transmittable, so as soon as you learn how to make these habits (shared below) a part of your life, you’ll start to notice a lot of people — including women — drive towards you. And, before you’ll even know, your social anxiety will start to disappear right before you eyes.

So let’s jump into overcoming shyness with women:

Step #1 to overcome your shyness with women: “Know your three things.”

This is the number one secret of improving your self-confidence, and becoming an extremely confident — aka attractive — man around others. It’s called being aware of the three things that excite you. You energy goes where your focus goes.

So the next time you’re in a situation where you’re thinking about how crappy you feel, or how introverted you are, just ask this question to yourself: “What are 3 things I can think of to reframe this situation to being positive?”

For example, if you’re walking back home from a final exam that you think you didn’t perform well. The first thing to do is to realize that you’re focusing on something ‘negative,’ and it is making you feel bad.

The second thing to do is instantly write off 3 things that you are excited about, or thankful for in that moment. For example, you could choose to think how ‘beautiful’ the day is outside, or that you don’t have to worry about that exam ever again, or even that you now have some free time to hang out with your friends.

You see, as you change your focus, you can change your life.

You can also apply this technique in your interactions with women. For instance, if a girl said something “rude” to you and you took it personally (she called you “nice” or “naive”) don’t take it as an insult, rather, choose to reframe this situation as an evidence that she is trying to flirt with you.

You can do this by listing off at least 3 reasons in your own head that she is clearly into you.

Here are three examples of things you can say to yourself:

  • “If that’s her way of saying she wants to be ‘bad’ with me, I might consider it.”
  • “Is that really her best pick-up line?”
  • “She’s never going to get my approval or win me with an attitude like that”

Believe me when I say this, taking action on this one piece of advice won’t be that easy at first — particularly if you’re feeling down and negative. But if you make the effort to build up the willpower to change what you’re focusing on any given moment, then this one single tip alone can make all the difference for you.

Step #2 to overcome your shyness with women: “Get into motion”

Anytime you start feel shy in a social settings, pay attention to your body language, because that may be the reason of your shyness.

Are you…

  • locking your knees and feet and not moving around much?
  • positioning your elbows close to your body?
  • holding your drink really close to your chest?

Once you become aware of your body language, the solution is easy: change those poor body language to make you feel relaxed, calm, and in the moment. A strong body language makes you feel relaxed and confident, because your mind and body are closely tied together.

Just imagine a guy who seems all down and depressed. How do they look like? Their shoulders are slumped, they’re looking down, and they’re restless and wary, lost in their own thoughts.

Now picture a guy who is confident, feeling amazing, and moving around as if he’s the host of the party. How do they look like? They’re standing tall. They’re shoulders are leaning back. They have a sly smile 😉 on their face.

So now you know what a good body language looks like, next time you catch yourself becoming shy, hesitant, and unsure of yourself, take a pause to look at your body language, and correct. It’s that simple.

Here’s the rule of thumb: stand tall and having a open body language is good; slouching off and having a closed off body language is bad.

So for example, if I am holding my drink too close to my chest, and my elbows are touching my side, what I’ll do is put my drink on the table by my side, and bloat out my chest a little bit. Or if I’m sitting down on a chair while staring down on the floor, I’ll quickly stand up and look straight aheard across the room, over other people, with a sly smile on my face.

My goal is simple — break my current body language and correct it to enhance my mood.

Step #3 to overcome your shyness with women: “Take cold showers.”

Okay, perhaps you don’t have any confidence issues. If that’s the case, the only thing that’s getting your way to be more outgoing and social in any social settings could be your anxiety and fear towards this situation.

And if you struggel approaching women, or tend to think twice to make your move in social situations, then you’ll absolutely love what I’m going to tell you next.

Start taking cold showers daily. Yeah, you heard that right. Nothing will benefit you more to staying calm, cool, and collected than under the pressure of a cold shower.

Just think about it for a second. You turn on the shower, and you can feel the icy cold drops of water hitting against your warm skin, striking it like little bullets, before you even enter in. And now imagine that feeling of nervousness and hesitation, preventing you from jumping under that cold running water.

This feeling is exactly the same feeling that most shy guys feel before approaching a woman. The fear. The anxiety. The hesitation. But by training yourself to jump into that cold shower and actually enjoy in that tension of the cold water striking your skin, you’re actually training yourself to crush your social/approach anxiety.

And the best part of doing this exercise is, everytime you do this, it becomes easier and easier. Just like practicing playing basketball daily you become a smooth basketball player, by taking cold shower daily, you become stronger and comfortable around overwhelming social situations and around women.

On top of that, make sure to train yourself to become relaxed when that water is striking down on your skin. If you do this often, you’ll become a master at controlling your emotional state in no time.

Do yourself a favor: Start applying all of these three simple steps into your daily interactions in your life, and I’ll promise, sooner than later, other shy guys will start to look at you as a living example of a confident, charismatic, and a social butterfly.

Stay chill.

Abishek

P.S. You’re the gift. You’re the prize to be won. You’re the prince charming. You’re the great catch.

If you agree on that, please subscribe to my free newsletter on the bottom of this post to get free insights, advice, and techniques to overcome yours shyness and crush your social anxiety, and become confident, dashing, and charming social butterfly in no time.

BTW, here’s another article related to this topic: How to become chill guy and get women!